Just so you know

IF you find that I never enter this site again, I am most likely dead.

My mother is going to leave her boyfriend, who is very aggressive and (we both think) capable of killing when drunk. I am afraid that he will hurt my mother so that I have to defend her...My biggest problem is that he is very, very strong...I ain't weak myself, I do train alot, but I stand no chance whatsoever.

The chances are that he will blame it on me, somehow, and become violent...

I am somewhat afraid, but I think I have to be here, just in case...

So...

I love some of you..

and i hate some of you..

It's not good to think that way... Try to keep your head up. What your mom is doing is a good thing. No woman needs an aggressive boyfriend. You are a good kid to defend her the way you do. Not many can say that. If you're afraid things will get violent and potentially life - threatening, call the police. I bet that the last thing your mom wants to do is bury her child. Please be safe. Even though I don't know you well, I still care about you and I wouldn't be happy to find that you were killed. I'm praying for you, okay? And if you need anyone to talk to, you know where to find me.

XxX))Eclipse((XxX

Restraining orders should be used in these types of situations.

Oh, and baseball bats do wonders.

Aken Sol

wow thats harsh...i think u should report him i mean who wants someone violent in their house. u can't have someone in the house thats violent...i wish u the best of luck...

OH, I've tried Angeline...

No can do...something must have happened before they step in...

I do truly think I will die tonight...or at least be mortally wounded....IT ain't really funny...I...I...I am no one...and am up to the fight of my life...

If I know him right, I'll have to fight him...

I feel so utterly lonley=(

You have no idea...

You do not understand anything...you have no idea who i am, what i feel, and what my dreams are...

You are all so...shallow...

Yes, I am very drunk now, and thus feel very bad.

You do not know who I am

But Brooke, I do sincerely think I want to know you...

You are by far the only one who seem to be feeling depressed in here, the way I do...

The things I feel right now, and think, is not for everyone to read...

I...I am so...dead...

I'd love to talk to you..somehow...

You seem like just the person I need to talk to=(

I`m not seeking sympathy...

Enslavemant, I am here and I sent you an email. I was with a guy that sounds like the type of man your mom is trying to leave. I am here for you always!

Errmm...Not wanting to die might save you. Your acting like you dying tonight isnt a huge deal, when it is. There are ways to protect your mother, without being killed. I'm sure that there are people who love you and your mom who would be willing to help. And, why doesnt she brake up with him via phone? Also, if he doesnt live with you guys why not lock all the doors ect, and not let him in? Or, if he does live with you, why not get rid of all the achohal and then brake the news to him?

Oh. Then just take away his drinks, give him a cookie, and start talking about birds, and bring it into the subject .

Your mother would never forgive herself if you dies for her.

:(

I'm worried too.....answer quick.

........

Wish the police could do something. :(

Peaces. //Ari\\

Enslavement: Have strength. It is not only Brooke, but everyone here who are pulling for you. Violence doesn't solve anything. The smarter solution: don't let him in. Tell him through the door that if he doesn't leave in the next five minutes, you'll notify the police. He can be arrested for tresspassing, disturbing the peace and harassment. You can have a restraining order put on him for those grounds alone. If your mother is truly afraid of him, she can cite reasonable fear for her life - which will strengthen the RO so you'll never have to worry about him again. Please, Enslavement, think about this and don't be afraid. Fear weakens the mind and drives people to deadly reaction. I and everyone else here would feel awful if something happened to you. Be safe. I'm still praying.

XxX))Eclipse((XxX

Eclipse is right....don't even let the bastard in (if he's out of the house).

Peaces. //Ari\\

^I agree...

Peaces. //Ari\\

Well it's true. Many believe that running away is cowardly, but knowing when to run is actually wise...

Peaces. //Ari\\

When loss of life is emminent, flight is a better option than fight. Self-preservation is more important than dignity. Get in your car with your mother and head to the nearest relative or women/children's shelter. You need to get away from this man if he's as dangerous as you say he is.

XxX))Eclipse((XxX

And Vagabon, stop making it out like he's going into a bloody war. He's an 18 year old boy, not a celtic warrior. Like I said already, violence is not the answer to everything. Life is the most valuable thing you have. Protect it and your mother's and you are a hero for two and the ones who care for you.

XxX))Eclipse((XxX

I still like the bird convo idea. I agree, call the cops, dont let him in, have a group of people fromk the mofia hiding in the closet. The works.

Are you still with us, because you havent answered for some time now.

Sitting at the computer? Don't think so....

I hope he answers soon...

Peaces. //Ari\\

We should have a iparty while we wait.

Lol

I hope he's ok...

-Lyd

How can you think of partying when Enslavement's life is in jeopardy?

XxX))Eclipse((XxX

She can have fun there, as she'll be the only one attending...

Peaces. //Ari\\

Vagabon: Your posts are not helpful. You sound like you are reading him his last rites. Keep talking like that and who knows what may happen... Stop trying to be the harbinger of death [that's my job] because it's not welcome here.

XxX))Eclipse((XxX

sorry to say..but if this fellow is drunk...and his moms bf is an abusive drunk....2 and 2 arnt going together very well. i hope for his best. as to why the police cant do anything. there needs to be proof..like marks.

man...i hope he makes it out ok...

but yeah...enslavement is drunk..and if the bfs not.....ouch.

im hoping beyond hope that the bf doesnt explode....at least..not too much...

good luck enslavement..even tho ur not here right now

:(

Odds don't look too good...

:(

Peaces. //Ari\\

lets hope he can defy the odds

He'll be okay.....i know.

Peaces. //Ari\\

Negativity need not apply here. All we can do though is hope for the best. Our hands are tied, because we are non but a computer screen for him. If we were there with him, it would be a different story. But, Que sera sera [What will be will be]. But if my intuition is accurate tonight I sense that he will make it out of there alive. Maybe hurt, but alive - that's the most important thing. We just need to be positive now.

XxX))Eclipse((XxX

Yes....be positive...

Peaces. //Ari\\

Groin and throat. These lead to the quickest incapacitation of the human body and the throat is an easy target when people are drunk.

The Romans used it to utterly devastating effect up until 400 AD. That can only be good.

Defence of the family comes above all else, I'm in your corner.

EOB, I really hope that things turn out all right for you.

Steve

Enslavement of Beauty I kept you & your mother in my prayers last night. I truly pray everything turns out the best for the two of you.

Take care & God bless you both.

I am alive allright, for the time being...

Glad to see that someone actually cares...well..

things didn't go too bad...My mother decided not to leave him...she obviously loves him... so...he'll stay...

I am somewhat afraid of what the future will bring, but I won't live here for much longer...I'll be in the army soon and will try to become a combat pilot..might be fun...

Anyways, thanks for caring...

it does mean alot to me...

cheers

woo. ur ok. *big sigh of relief*

Taylor it took my mom 13 years to get the courage to boot out her drunk and abusive boyfriend.

You're ok? Okay...

Glad you're alright.

Peaces. //Ari\\

Now we can all breathe a sigh of relief. We're all glad to have you back and safe.

XxX))Eclipse((XxX

Enslavement of Beauty glad to see you are ok.

Sometimes fear will make a woman stay with a man who is abusive. I lived with a guy a long time ago who used cocaine & drank quite a bit & could become very mean sometimes. I put up with it for a long time because he had threatened to kill me & my son if we ever tried to leave. He used to smash our car windows & windows in the house, punch holes in the walls, break things...anything to try to intimidate me... it worked for a long while. One night at about 3am 3 men broke into our house and were shouting & waving guns around (a drug deal gone bad, I guess) He laid there like he was sleeping while I ran in the livingroom where my 3 year old son was sleeping on the couch, which is where the guys were with the guns.. I grabbed my son & ran out of the house. They didn't want me since at the time, I was so young & dumb, I didn't even know he used cocaine. I left him very soon after that happened. I have 3 pretty good sized brothers..they met me at the house and stayed there while I packed things up & left. He did bother me a few times after that, until my brother beat the heck out of him. Sometimes, that's what it takes I guess.
When she has enough of it she'll leave. For both of your sake's, I hope it's soon.
Take care & if you ever need to talk let me know.