helooooo?

hey gurlz what happend to the other one? the topic just dissapeared

I think so....O.o

Okay...so maybe when we got off topic...we should've moved to the friendship forum?

Peaces. //Ari\\

I'm really liking how they delete topics as soon as they go off track.

LMAO

MUCH worse.

Maybe, they didn't want a new post about it.
Just stick to the old one.

lolz...so what advice do u have to give me??? what should i do about him???

EAT HIM!!!!!!!!

-Lyd

well NOTHING is up anymore....ITS OVER...he broke up with me Yesterday...supposebly there is no point to our relationship...i miss him...

Obviously...especially if he acts like he doesn't have time for you. You deserve better. :)

Peaces. //Ari\\

Nena you are 15, there will be more guys.
I don't understand why teenagers want love so fast.

Ryan u r 16...which is one yr older than me. so maybe u r looking for love...

But i don't know somehow i just don't feel as sad as i should feel...i just met this guy yesterday his name is "payaso" aka "clown" in spanish and he seems really nice but i think that i am ready to move on...

me tooooooooooooooo . . . lolzzzz . . . i think i can try again...just one more time

yeah i need that but he seems so perfect maybe too perfect..should i let myself fall for him ???

Nena I am 17.

Nena, why set yourself up for disappointment again. Does that not seem utterly pointless?

but what if he is different...he talks to me sooo sweetly and everything maybe he is the guy that i have been looking for...but ryan...for some time now all i've experienced was heartbreak maybe this is different

taylor...nooooooooooooooo don't say that...i want love..i feel lonely and i need somebody to share my life with...my mom met my dad when she was 14 i just want the same thing

mm. you guys are making me sick.

"I'm giving up on relationships. I've been hurt to much."

that kills me.

I never get chances like that. I've never had the chance to say I'm giving up on love. I've never had it to begin with. I give it out, all the effin time, but not once have I gotten it back, relationship wise.

So, be glad that you even have the opportunity to give it up. You have so many chances to find love, so why would you throw them away?

It's kinda like food. People are over in america throwing their extra hamburger in the trash, while people in Africa kill for that. Some people get love, and throw it away because they are tired of it, or they've been broken so many times before. But there are so many people who have never had the chance to love. Just think about that next time you let love or potential love slip by you.

People your age shouldn't worry about relationships...

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yeah but with him its like my life actually makes sense....he doesnt' judge me....he just likes me for me.

Then what should be the most important thing?

i know that i have to focuss on school and blah blah blah....but i really do like him and for once he does call me...lolz...i just have to give THIS relationship time to grow

You are a blind, naive little girl if you put all you hopes on one male. 'With him, my life makes sense". Please! You're a fifteen year old girl in her sophomore year of high school. Love should be the least of your concerns [take this from a poor soul who got wrapped up in a brutal love triangle during freshman year]. Men are hardwired to be 'prince charming' at first glance [It's all part of the mating ritual...], but as soon as he 'has' you, he turns into Mr. Hyde [a complete monster]. Kids your age don't need to worry about that kind of drama. Save your heart for a guy you know will treat you right, because an untouched heart is a better gift than a tattered one.

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Thats true Coolor, but you gotta understand the way life is. It would be nice if we didn't make love our biggest priority, but why were we put on this earth? So we can get a great office job? neh. It was to make more babies. Wouldn't it be nice to make those babies and ENJOY the person you make them with? And that fuzzy feeling you get when your with a certain person makes it enjoyable to love and to live.

It's really just how our mind works. You can't just change things like that. You don't think that Donald Trump was like that when he was a teenager? I'm sure he was.

I guess what I'm trying to say is that getting good jobs shouldn't be the most important thing to us. I beleive that we should be happy with our lives, not miserably trying to strive for perfection. I'm honestly not happy with going to a big college or taking extra classes.

Getting good jobs isn't the most important thing in the world, but to be financially firm enough to support a family is. Education is the first step to that and is therefore of the greatest priority. Love can wait until you're ready for it to come. My stand is that teenagers are too young for that kind of commitment on both the mental and physical aspects. Kids need to relax and enjoy these days while you have them instead of wasting them away on daydreaming of finding true love. Build a foundation to stand on - then light your beakon to your heart. The right guy will see your light and find you when the time is right. Until then, focus on the now, rather than the future.

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yes it made sense. I guess I did get you wrong. I just don't want to spend my life acquiring knowledge to get my name on the front page, and I don't want to constantly be learning in a classroom. I honestly think I'm gonna end up being a bum when I grow up.

yes taylor it made sense and i understand...but u know how it is...in school you see all these guys that look soo good its kinda hard not to fall for and kinda hard not to want to be with them. a guy will not get between me and my school work. but i want to go to Law school and i want to have a good career and then get married and etc. but i want to go from now with a boyfriend and if we geet lucky then we may be together for a long time. do u get what i'm talking about?????

yeah, I like to think I'm somewhat smart too, but I don't think I'm going to get my high school diploma. And if i do, I won't get into a college. and if I somehow DO get into a college...I won't get any degrees. besides, the things I want to do will either never happen for me, or don't have any education requirements or a steady pay.

actually nena, I don't know how it is. I walk around school and see all these 'hot guys' and despise them. now girls...nope, still don't know. I usually know I don't have any chance so I leave it alone.

well yeah, thats the problem, I don't like working hard at stuff I hate doing.

What a ray of sunshine you are, Renee... Try ot think more positively. I was in trouble senior year because I was going to fail my English class if I didn't get at least a 96% on my final exam. If I failed it, I wouldn't graduate because our school system requires four english, four history/government, three math, three science, three foreign language, two Health/PE and four fine arts credits to graduate. I would've had all but the English, but thankfully, the exam was a project - a full scale book report on one of three books. I chose Brave New World. For the project, I put together an intricate Power Point/video intigrated presentation and ended up with a 98% on the final exam, but a D overall. Not applause worthy, but at least I didn't give up. Even as badly as I messed up, I was accepted to Mary Baldwin College and Liberty University. In the end, I turned them both down to go to a community college for two years to get my Associates in Applied Arts [A.A.A]. Afterwards, I may transfer to a larger university like George Mason to expand on the field more. But don't give up, no matter how bleak things may seem, because the first step to failure is surrender.

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well thats good. you posted earlier that you go to music school? where the hell is that? I wanna sign up.

I still have 2 years of Gym to do in this school. The teacher almost failed one of my friends and she wasn't going to be able to graduate because of it. He's a sexist pig. I like Gym, its one of my favorites, but he's really gettin me. And math, which is of course a requirement, is a downer. I almost failed pre-algebra. And I have no idea how I'm going to get through geometry this year, seeing as how I think I've gotten dummer over the summer.

Eclipse...I wish I could think like you. It's hard working for people that make me sick. I hate being dictated, and thats what they do in school. I hate being controlled. I also hate being like everyone else. And everyone else likes to give in and waste their life on getting more and more education. I'm just trying to survive all these things in my mind. It's hard pleasing myself and pleasing my parents with good grades at the same time.

That is pretty bad. As long as the math isn't Algebra II or higher, I can help you a little. Geometry is my strong point, so if you have any problems with that, post a forum here and I, and anyone else here who knows Geometry, can help you out.
As for music school, it depends on where you live. I'm in Virginia and I near a lot of good music schools like Shenendoah University, Shepherd University and George Mason University.
The biggest thing for you now is not giving up. Try really hard and don't let things get to you. Junior year is time for SAT's, scholorship applications and the beginning college admissions process. Work at it, and who knows where you'll end up? Just don't lose faith in yourself.

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*gasp* theres a music school in Canada?!!!

I think I just found my heaven.

Where abouts in Virginia do you stay? I used to live in Hampton Roads in Newport News, near Christopher Newport University. My friend is thinking of going to Virginia Weselyian college and I just might try going there to.

Renee, that's really flattering. I know you feel like school is a dictatorship and a prison. All kids feel like that sometime. I just think of it as a test. They make it hard to prepare you - toughen you for college and real life. Like I said in another post: adolesense is boot camp for adult life. Get through it, and you'll be that much stronger. Shatter their doubts of you and prove their impressions of you wrong. Defy them the glory of defeating you by completing your classes with good grades and walking across that stage with diploma in hand. If I can do it, you can.

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Coolor! you should definitley try going to Julliard!! that would be fucking awesome

Renee: Northern VA
Taylor: Nothing is impossible. If your teacher believes in you, you should believe in yourself. I have seen Julliard - beautiful school. If you have a gift in the arts, don't waste it. Go for the dream.

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oh god eclipse, trust me, I've been through that phase. I'm tired of proving myself to others. I really am living for myself right now and not giving a fuck about what they see or think. I could care less. Maybe thats why its so hard for me to not give up. because I really don't give a shit about it. I just want to do music and smoke and drink and have good times with my friends. like i said, I really think I'm going to end up a bum someday.

Well I have faith in you. If you ever need help, you know where to find me.

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