Hurt ... Hurt ... :(

im in love with this guy and i truely cherish him and i adore him ... and i know that he loves me back, but the problem is that he can't stop hurting me! He hurts me by his words and actions... the way he blames everything on me ... everybody told me that I better leave him, but i can't cuz i love him so much, this love i have inside just keep me staying when i should be leaving... this is a poem i wrote once about what im feeling:
I don't want to come too close, I might get hurt
I don't want to go too far, I might die
I feel lost between those two
I don't know what to choose, I don't know what to do
Should I go near you and get hurt
Or should I get away and fly like a free bird
No matter what my choice will be
Be sure that you're the only one for me
I love you, need you, and I want to stay
But then I'm afraid... So I must get away
God, I need help so bad, I need advice
I don't want to make the same mistake twice

Does anyone have any advice for me? I would really appreciate it.. bye all

Dear friend,
Unfortunately we live in a world, where love and hurt seem to go hand in hand, much like many friends and lovers. However love should not hurt in the way that you describe. You should not be careless with other peoples heart, but neither should you tolerate people who are careless with yours. And in the end, heartache does pass. I suggest talking to him, and if there is no change and effort on his part,.....walk away. These relationships have the habbit of turning out for the worst.
Good Luck. :)

....float on.....