If you had to make a choice, what would you do?

would you choose the ex-boyfriend whom you've been attached to for so long, or would you go with a new guy, a great guy who makes you smile at the sight of him?

i know that most of you think finding the answer should be easy, but believe me it's not, although my ex hurt me, i've gotten over it because it was a last year thing and i refuse to hold grudges, it's not healthy at least i think it's not, i don't know it's a complicated mess i still care so much about him and he has and always will have a special place in my heart....but then there's this other guy who's sweet, and i know if i give him a chance will treat me well, but then again i wonder has my ex changed at all? it seems like he has and maybe if i give him a second chance it'll work out better, i apoligize if i sound pathetic but i figured if i can't figure this out for myself, maybe someone here can point me in the right direction.

Dominique

who do u have feelings for the most and do both of them like you in the same way as u???

There is a reason your ex IS your ex. You said he is the person who has already hurt you before. You forgave him, which is good. But try to understand that people just are who they are and not who we would like them to be. You say you aren't sure he has changed?? People normally don't change because of someone else. The motivation and desire to change has to come from within oneself. And changing oneself is not simple or easy.

The choice that you now have can be analyzed in mathematical terms because If you return to him the odds are probably 4/5 that the same or a similar thing will happen all over again. Is that a risk you really want to take? He may be a great friend/ companion as long as you aren't in a relationship with him. But some people just aren't very good relationship material.

ohh i know how you feel, but i think you should go for the new guy. trust me your ex will be gone out of your mind soon, even tho you think he wont.
xx