Just A Question ..

Ok .. How me and my boyfriend started to go out was pretty weird if you ask me and I know some of you might not agree with it but I was just wondering if you think it was wrong to do in the first place even though it ended up like it did.

So anyways my boyfriend .. not at the time was going out with this girl Lisa .. now Lisa was really nice and everything but she treated Mike ( my boyfriend now ) like shit. He would ask her to do things and she would be like ' no i have homework to do ' or ' no im gonna go out with my mom' so he was always like ok thats fine and whatever. But when he called there later on to talk to her , she would be over at her friends house with older guys and such. So he dealt with this for a while.

Mike was very popular .. not in a weird way to say that but he was, every girl wanted him. Including me .. every girl drooled over him so any girl that went out with him usually wouldnt act like this.

So i had a party for my 14th birthday .. 3 years ago. So he ended up coming beacuse my sister and his brother are pretty good friends and thats how i met him in the first place.

So at the party me and him talked but i was so damn shy to talk that we really didnt say much. I was so nervous the whole night and i couldnt say much of anything without slurring my words.

At he end of the night it was me mike my sister his brother and about 2 of my friends and 2 of my sisters. i was sitting with him and was writing little messages in his phone. When it was time to leave everyone went upstairs and he kissed me . I swear there were fireworks going off around me. I melted .. i couldnt believe what had happened . * note: he was still with LIsa *

He left my house and said he would call me tomorrow. I didnt believe him. But the next morning he called me , told me that him and Lisa broke up and that he wanted to see me and we have been together ever since.

It is out 3 years in March and im still so happy with him. I still see him as that guy that every girl dreams for.

Me and Lisa are friends now and are very cool. She has gotten over the fact of what happend and sure she was pissed and all but i told her i was sorry. I knew it wouldnt make up for it , but he kissed me . I know thats beyond the point but still.

Do you think it was wrong or do you think it was well worth it ? * note: he still has the messages i wrote in his phone ♥*

Well if everything is right now, then it's not wrong. Everything happens for a reason and you just got lucky.

i agree

but do you think since i did it , i shouldnt have anyways beacuse of the fact what if it didnt end up like this?

but are you happy? if both you and him are happy you shouldn't have to look back....obviously fate took over and you got lucky

Im very happy , i just remeber people telling me how wrong i was. But i knew they were wrong cause when we first talked it was like we had known eachother forever. I knew it woudl work.

Well don't worry so much of what others think....you shouldn't let what others think get in the way...and if he made the move he obviously liked you as well.