Hmmmm i needta tell me bf

Ok, well i need 2 tell my bf that i cut, so on so forth
I want a quote/ small poem 2 tell him ummm kuld ani1 help me owt???

what do you want help with a poem? hhmm i think the poem you should write yourself because noone knows how you feel. make sure you include how you feel when you do it and after... and why you do it what makes you... i cut (not frequently just when necessary) and my boyfriend doesnt know but i dont know if he'll understand but good luck i hope everything goes well how long have you 2 been going out for? hope it all goes well

Ummmm we onli been going owt for like 2 weeks lol but i want our relationship to b truthful and i dnt wanna keep anyfing frm him
i just want a quote that jst says i cut...... lol

A short quote REALLY isn't the best way to tell him. It's a delicate subject.

WHY do u want to tell him? you cut..so what? why does he need to know?

I dont want 2 keep anifing frm him!!! And thats a big sumthing!!!

Wait a minute....... didn't you post in another forum that he knows you cut and he kissed the scars on your wrists?? ..... and that now you're gonna stop cutting?

Hmmm.

yes, but i need to tell him that its not that easy to stop, and ill try but i cant promise anything
Does any1 have ani ideas???

First, just so you know where I'm coming from, I have never been a cutter. But I do understand full well that this is something that is usually very difficult to stop. But to most non-cutters the whole idea of people cutting themselves just sounds utterly stupid and they honestly think you could stop doing it just as easily as you could stop eating peanut butter. Are you prepared to explain it all to him in a way that can be understood? Maybe the better question is: Do you really have a clear understanding of why you cut and why it so hard to quit?

Next question is: Are you sure you really WANT to quit badly enough to actually do so? There is a big difference between just saying you want to do something and actually having a firm intention and a plan in place to achieve a specific goal. The reason I'm asking is because it would be a mistake to even tell your bf you're trying to quit if you're not going to make a full, all-out effort.

if your bf love you enough he will help you throw it. My bf freak out but still he was there for me. He told my parents and I was so pissed at him for that and after awhile I realise he was doing that to help me.
you need to tell him
take care hope all goes well

hi. um firstly just before you go telling him anything, make sure its what you want. i recently told mine, and he COMPLETELY freaked out. if you are gonna tell him then good luck, im sure hel do his best to help you if he really loves you
polly xxx

if you are absolutely 100% shure, tell him..
you can use this poem of mine if you want... I don't have any other one about cutting, sorry.

She looks into the mirror
with a razor in her hand
she sees a girl unknown to her
blood dripping to where they stand

here face like a picture
painted from black and grey
so much hurt, so much pain
yet emotionless in every way

who is this girl she longs to be
who is hidden in the past
she's been trying to reach her for so long
but she hides away too fast

thoughts rushing all around
too messed up to understand and see
a question appears so clear to her
what is wrong with me??

Beautiful, Natasha.

Anyway, you really should write your own poem or quote. It'll have more meaning if you do it.

in seventh grade i had a bf that i loved alot...then i told him that i cut n he completly ditched me so yeah

well, people don't know how to respond to something like this.
It freaks them out, it scares them... and yeah it's understandable, if you are on the outside of things.
when you get let in on a secret so big like this, it's emotional for both him and you.
He wants to protect you, he doesn't want you to hurt.. and then suddenly he is powerless.
I don't say I think it is right to leave someone over this, I do think it is understandable that they don't know what to do.