a touch overated?

my bf says i love you everytime we leave eachother, i know hes just telling me how he feels and i love him too. but dont you think it has lost its meaning?

think about that for a second.. if you knew you were gonna die... would you tell the one you love that you love them, or that you never loved them??

if you tell them you love them, that would be words, they will hurt to part and have trouble moving on and living...
if you tell them you never loved them then two things:
1) they will hate you and with hate be able to move on quicker and easier, they wont even think that you're worht it to die with
2) they will see through that you said that because you love them too much, more than words, they will understand how you want them to be, to live on and search for happiness

I believe if you love someone you should tell them every chance you get.
Parents, children, family, lovers...whatever.

Don't ever under estimate the chances you have to spend with your loved ones..make the most of it and say how you feel..

I always say I love you to my boyfriend, and he does it too, to me it hasn't lost its meaning, everytime he says it to me it has so much meaning, even more meaning than the last time he said it.

yea now that you mention it. it hasnt changed anything between us, im more in love with then i ever have been. thanks

I totally feel you. I broke up with my boyfriend on 7 months in November and was feeling the same thing. We said the "L-word" very early in our relationship, and I did almost feel that it was not genuine after a while.

Now, with my new boyfriend (of one week), we've decided to take things really slowly and make sure that we are real and honest and not pressured at all by what we are "supposed to feel". We've also been close friends for a long time, so we don't want to rush into anything that could be fatal for our friendship.

As for advice for you, tell your boyfriend how you feel. Tell him that you do genuinely love him, but explain that the term itself just doesn't feel as special when it's used as frequently as "goodbye" or "hello." He should be able to understand that. My ex didn't.