What would you do?

Ok theres this party on saturday and i cant go my boyfriend wants to go but might not go cuz i cant
but if he wants to go i want him to go cuz i dont wanna hold him back from being with his friends ....
I mean bcause usually the only time he sees his friends is at school because on the weekends he's with me ..

(Girls) would you want your boyfriend to go or no?

(Guys) Would you go?

I just need your guy's opinions. please.
Love Always
♥NerdyPants♥

You guys are great lol
I really want him to go
but he says he doesnt wanna go if i dont go but he already said he wanted to go so i know hes just saying that and if he doesnt go i'll feel soo bad

then if he goes i'll be scared that he'll find someone better then me but i trust him so much
and i'll be alone on saturday if he goes wich is gonna suck. o.O

nah, if you trust him, you'll be just fine. and you do, so it's all good. let him go to the party. he should know his limits, trust me. if he doesn't, i'll kick him.

Lol thanks
He should be scared now!

Love Always
♥NerdyPants♥

I cant go cuz my mom is working and i have to watch my little sister. Blah!

go! put her in the trunk! ha ha jk

lol

Lol gina.

Yea hes allowed over.

sarah is right.

Thanks guys. so much.

no problem. whatever happens, let us know! :)

No worries i'll let you know what happens
Although im still stressed about this. :(
Love Always
NerdyPants

Well I would be too. I really don’t know if I can let my bf do that too. I mean it’s like this: if you can’t go to prom with him, would you let him go? prom, partying… same thing. “things happen” is always the excuse. But who knows. Only you know your guy. If he’s a player, I’d think about having him over. If he’s trustworthy and committed, he’ll be okay outside. But yeah, I know where you’re coming from. I wouldn’t let my ex go out to party :| but ry, he’d be just fine. You know? it really depends on the guy.

Its like i dont want him to go because i want him to be with me but hes with me whenever he can be
I want him to do what he wants to do and i know he wants to go
I feel like hes not gonna go and its all my fault
Like im holding him back from having fun ...
It makes me really sad ... im scared hes gonna like see that im holding him back .. and leave me ... that i think is the reason i want him to go ...
I just always feel like im not good enough and that insecurity comes from my ex because he cheated on me so i always felt less of myself. :(
This is depressing to talk about.
Im out
Love Always
NerdyPants

I have talked to him.. i havnt told him im insecure though because like couple days ago we both made a promise that we would never cheat on eachother so i dont wanna bring it up again because i dont want to hurt his feelings if he thinks i dont believe him or trust him ..
I told him i want him to go we talked about this already but i dont think hes going and i feel really bad. *sigh*
Thanks so much for your help it means so much.
Love Always
NerdyPants

Does anyone else have advice for me
Or atleast an opinion.

It doesnt lol
Im not trying to make him not go im trying to make him go
Hes not going because of me and i feel bad.

I know in a way i am happy but in another way
I feel like im holding him back from being with his friends ...
o.o Gawsh.

aww dont feel that way. i understand though. let him decide though. if he goes, that doesnt mean he doesnt care about you. and if you're holding him back, which you probly aren't, i'm sure he'll inform you somewhat. no worries.

I just feel like he thinks he HAS to not go to the party just cuz im not going ..
I dont want him to feel like that.

Ok thanks. :)
You helped so much.
I appreciate it.

Who would you beat? o.O