what should i do.....

ok like my gf lives nextdoor to her ex bf and she got with me like 2 or 3 weeks after he broke up with her cuz he was cheating on her well friday she was at his house and she was acting weird we were talking on the phone and i told her that i missed her and she got mad and hung up, i called back like 5 mins later and she wouldnt answer then the next day i was partying and she textd me and i told her what her problem was for hanging up on me she said that my phone cut off then i said it didnt and she said " oh...i fell asleep no my mom came im" i said whatever and that ill call her later. then we got into a fight cuz she sais she wasent at her exs house but i heard him in the background. then she read me a letter they were writing to each other she asked him if hed ever get back with her and she said she would but shes with someone. i got mad but i didnt say anything about it so i let it go. then she said that she has to see me tommarow cuz if not she would do something with him, i was like wtf. the next day me and my bro were at the mall so i told her to come so we could go to the movies, she did and during the movie i kissed her on the cheek and she said eww... i got maui germs on me and she said wait no you got james germs on you that pissed me off really bad, i was about to leave the theater but i stayed cuz i didnt want my bro to be alone....then she was all i was just playing. then we went to my house to talk and i told her it was fucked up what she did...she said she was sorry and that she wouldnt ever get back with him cuz of what he did, but the letter said diffrent. im scared shell cheat on me, i dont know what to do... sorry its long

what she did seems pretty screwed up. in my opinion, you should probably break up with her. you deserve WAY better. but thats MY opinion, so don't do something someone tells you to do. it sounds cheesy, but follow your heart.
i've been faced with pretty screwed up relationships so i shouln't be the one givin advice, but under any circumstances what she did is not cool. but do whatever you feel is right...
hope i helped and hope everything goes ok for you.
-lauren

yeah i think what she did was screwed up...i think she wants to make u jealous with the other guy....and thats not cool...if you think what she is doing to is wrong then talk to her about it and if she gets mad then shes obviously hidding sumthin....but thats jus my opinion...you sound like you really care about her and you deserve better than whats shes doin to you...well good luck keep us posted on what happens...-peace-

you must be a sweet and patience guy, because boys I know would have left when she was at her ex house. The worst thing about it is not only did she hang up in your face while she was over there(which in my mind I think she'd hiding something from you) but she lied and told you some dumb excuse. On top of that she's gonna disrespect you even more and tell you after you kissed her you have another boy's germs on you! I dont even know you and it got me mad. I dont think you need her so you can tell her trifiling selfl she could go right back to her ex!

That's not cool! If i was you, I would've left her by now (and been a bajillion miles away from her) HOWEVER, that's what I would do and I'm not you so... haha. Just follow your heart! Yeah, reading this made me mad, you ARE very patient and sweet if you could take all that.

Good luck to you :)

orange daisy.

ok now something else happend, yesturday after school her mom saw us together. she doesnt know that were together, well she didnt know, and she is in really big trouble and its all becuz of me. i dont want for things to be bad at her home becuz of me, everyone keeps saying that i should break up with her but i cant. ive been trying to do it since yesturday but everytime im with her i look at her and i think about doing it but i cant i love her too much and i cant not be with her. this morning when my mom was dropping me off at school she says i need to do it no matter how hard it is, i started crying at the thought of being without her, i just want for her to be happy but at the sametime i want to be happy and be with her i dont know what to do ....damn i dont know if that made any sense at all sorry if it doesnt