I think my best friend hates me

You see my best friend is always doing stuff behind my back. But it's not really bad cause she's asking this guy out for me even though I told her not to. I can't trust her either. She told her friend my secret just because she told her her secret. She said she can't even talk to me about anything. I tried to help her out when she really needed it but she said she felt akward about talking to me about it. We've been best friends for 4 or 5 years and have known each other for 4 more years! I also found a ripped picture of me in her folder. And I think she is the kind of person that talks behind her friend's back. Because she hates our other best friend and talks bad about her behind her back. And I think she's doing the same about me with another one of our friends. I think she's the one losing the friendship cause she already lost 4 that way. But I don't want to lose this friendship what should I do?

Hmm, Im not sure i can really give any advise. When ive had friends like that, Ive always been too nice to say something about it. I guess you could stop telling her things. Like give little hints to make her understand that you cant trust her...

Hope that helped a bit..I tried my best.

luv natalie x-x

Thanks for helping. I give her a lot of hints. I put it on my myspace profile. Everything. How she ruined my life, how I gave up my only true friend to be her friend, but when she asks me if I'm talking about her I can't force myself to say anything. I don't tell her anything anymore. Cause she'll just tell her mom like she always does and her friend that I hates then she'll ask me so many irritaing questions about it

she aint a friend ok not even a best friend you need to take care of yourself and stop hanging around her ok bye

Grr.... She gave me her password to her myspace and I looked at her inbox and the very last message was about me! She thinks I'm just cutting myself to get attention because I don't tell her why I cut! It was because of her! I would have told her but the last time I told her I cut myself because of her she just aired me out! She just blamed someone else for it! I want to stop being her friend but I can't bring myself to tell her

Hey,
Friends are important people, you should be able to trust them and if you cant then they arent real friends.
You should talk to her and explain things to her, I had a friend who thought i was cutting for attention. Now I havent cut for over 6 months (not that its relevant) but when i did once cut over and argument we had, and i soon realised id be better off without her.

best wishes, Tara-Kay
xxxx

Thanks for the advice everyone. I think I'm going to try allison's advice. Because my other best friend is also best friends with her but she know she hates her. I know she's a good friend to me. She was there when i was crying and she told me something my other friends were keeping from me. She was the only person to do that for me. Do you think it'll work if I talk to my other friend about just leaving our fake friend? because I know she feels the same way