Trust

well my b/f is going on a trip to new york for 2 to 3 weeks for business and well i'm affraid he might cheat on me he's done it before i forgave him and he claims that i'm the most important thing in his life and i do trust him i love him and he said he isn't going to cheat on me but i have a gut feeling something bad's gonna happen don't know what to do advice

Well, why'd you forgive him the first time if you don't trust him? If you don't trust him, break up with him. If you won't break up with him, trust him.

Someone whos willing to hurt you the first time will probly do it again.

thats really all i have to say.

*high fives seany*

Your silly - no offence.

"If someone betrays you once its their fault ...if they betray you twice its your own fault"

You let him back in after it happened the first time, guaranteed if not this time then some other time he'll make a fool outta you...sorry to be blunt but its true.

^^ I agree. If he did it once, he's bound to do it again. Why are you even with him if he cheated on you once and lost your trust? There's no point being in a relationship lacking trust.

You shouldn't have even taken him back the first time, it's only a matter of time before he hurts you again.

meh you guys are right, she shouldnt have taken him back..but I understand why she did. I dont know what to tell you,,if you dont trust him..perhaps you should not..be with him.? yea..

I must agree. You shouldn't of taken him back to begin with. I made that mistake twice....and got hurt again both times. Haha. Lol. But really....it's not fun, it wasn't a good idea, and I really do wish you all the best.

But....If you can't trust him...then why waste your time? If there isn't any trust....then how can you love him?

yep. once a cheat...... let him grow up and relize what he is losing. or make him prove to you that you are the most important thing in his life like he tells you

good luck i hope it all goes well

keep the talent keep the faith keep the abilty to write beautifully

laura