mother trouble:(

So heres the thing I was adopted when i was 8 months old. My biological mother is not the best mother in the world. See when i was 6 months old and my 2 sisters were 2 and 3 she locked us in a motel and we were there for a day and a half. she left for a guy and went to some other state. My biological dad is great just not her. Their not together anymore they were seperated since i was about 3 months old. Ive seen her maybe 2 times in my whole life. I found out in November that she called my 2 sisters but now its June and she hasnt called me. They have her # and they were going to give it to me but i didnt get it because i figured she should call me since shes my mom. and she shows up unanounced when she does visit. I wanted to know if i should get her # and call or if i should ignore her when she comes over next time. Cause she makes me cry because she doesnt call and then i want her to call but she doesnt care for me or my sisters. so i dont know if i should tell her not to call or just deal with her making me sad all the time cause shes my mom.

Please give me an opinion. i need help

Thanks Tiffany

You need to do what you want to do. If you really want to talk to your mum, and put the past behind you, then make the first move. It's not fair on you, but it may be the only way.
Have you thought about calling her and telling her exactly how you feel? I don't know how she would react to it, but in the very least, I think it would make you feel better.

Like I said already, it really is up to you. Think long and hard, and go with your insticts on this one.

thanks Ill think about that i just dont want her to do her fake crying again.

Hi Tiffany
I can only imagine the tough situation you have found yourself in and my heart honestly does go out to you and your sisters.
My best advice without having such an experience is to do what will make you feel better and give you some closure. Whatever it is you need to do to feel better about yourself and the situation as a whole is how you should act. If you have questions that need answers and you feel that you cant move on as a person in life without getting those answers from your mother - contact her. If you really think her prescence will influence your life for the worst and dont have anything you want or need from her perhaps its best to let sleeping dogs lie...I dont know what else to say I dont know how hard it is for you but I really do hope things work out for the best as Im sure they will!
Good luck you'll be in my prayers :O)

i think you should call her and tell her how you truly feel!!!!!! it will make you feel better and it mgiht make things better between you and her.....but you decide! :) i hope everything works out!!!

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