Losing the best of the best...

So I will tell you what the title means... Well um I'm losing the man of my dreams he meant the world to me and I'm really hurt. I just need some help??

OK well I loved him and well he is always looking me in the eyes and telling me he loves me but then the day he met this other girl thats when it all turned deadly. They started hanging out together and I'm afraid he is CHEATING

How can you lose someone if you havent lost them yet..i would confront them and ask whats goen on..you maybe jumping to conclusions but then again you maynot be

I don't understand something, and I apologize if it sounds offensive.

How can you REALLY be in love and not have trust in him?

....?

On some level, I could understand suspicion derived from that fear of losing someone you love, but if you really trusted him, why are you afraid he's cheating?

You need to ask yourself if you really think he would cheat on you. If a part of you, even a tiny part, feels he might be, there is not much trust. You need to sit him down and tell him how you feel. Once again, communication is extremely important.

well maybe i know because he hasn't spent anytime with me since

i went thru this with my ex and im just getting over him (we didn't brake up cuz of this). he was hanging out with this chic from work and constantly talked about her and since were both big on talkin stuff out, we sat down and i just told him how it hurt to think that he could cheat on me and just stuff like that, so just try talking to him before yu rush into any thoughts. i hope this helps! :)

There probably exists no direct help.. it always hurts to lose love. I have lost many pets to death.

If you love him, then fight for him as hard as you can. If that is not enough, and he doesn't want you anymore, try to make friends...then move on.

//T.L.//

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