Please advice

I have been having an internet affair for a year now. It was a very very rocky 6 months as there were things that needed to be resolved. Lots of tears, angry words and many times we would break up and then get back together.

The past 5 months have been absolutely wonderful. I have fallen deeply and intensely in love with this man. He is sweet, tender, loving, caring and very patient. We both have very overwhelming deep and intense feelings for each other. Things were going wonderfully up until a month ago. He is planning to emigrate to another country very soon. Up until a month ago we were able to spend a great deal of time together because of the time difference so that spouses and kids were out of the house.

However this past month has been a nightmare. Everyone is now at home all the time as they prepare to move. We are getting absolutely no time together alone, no phone sex. Im a starting to act like a psycho nut because Im so unhappy with whats going on, and he is getting really tired of me acting like the bunny boiler.

I love this man more than life itself. I never ever thought that I could have such incredible feelings for another man being married to someone else.

Im really at a lost at what to do.

Please advice

There is alot of things wrong with this picture..Numero uno is cheating on your spouse..thats a big NO NO! and you have kids..they should come before anyone and anything..and internet dating...i dont know too much about that subject but sounds retarded..how can you date someone over the internet and not be able to hang out with them and go on actual dates..weird..and how can you say you actually love him..i think you love his personality and comfort but i dont think you love him as a person..sounds confusing but thats what i think..i also think that you need to stop with internet dating and stick to your spouse and kids at home..

Completely agree with that ^

You really shouldn't be having an affair, that's so morally wrong... And chances are, he's not going to leave his family for you, so what's the point? Give up... Focus on your family. That's what is important.

~BJ~

nasty. phone sex. no morals. you disgust me. stop that whole thing... really, makes me... sick... i wanna say words that don't belong. haha but just stop that internet stuff.. not working...