what do i do

Okay, you should know to forget it. He's too old and probably wants to use you for sex. Don't be fooled into it. Don't even consider being with someone 6 years older than you at 14. It's just crazy.

If he is 20, and sees you as anything other than a child, there is something wrong with him. It isn't normal. As punksunite and Angelina have said, don't even consider it.

if you do chose to stay with him i dont suggest you have sex until your 16 i think thatif he really wants you not your body he will wait try it lol :P xxx alex xxx

Get out.. Frist off you really should have asked his age before saying yes. But that doesn't make you stupid. Just explain you can't date him..

Alex, you give the worst advice possible.

Ok, first off all, that's illegal. You're still considered a minor, and he's considered an adult. I'm sure he is just using you for sex. There is no possible way you can have a mature relationship. Find someone your own age, or at max, 3 years older than you. At least now, since you are 14, which isn't even a reasonable age to start dating.

I really think dating under the age of 16 should be illegal. You kids don't know how you can eff up your life because of some stupid guy/girl.

i went to my friends house last night and got talking to this guy who i have known for a while.and then he asked me out. so i said yes. cuz i really liked him. but i didnt know how old he was until i left with my friend. she told me he was 20 and i am only 14!!! wat should i do??

Wait you knew him for a while and didn't know how old he was?

Gesh....been through that road before...but now its over...with!! which i'm glad!!

Well what to do...u are still young. Think it over and do what its right. Though I do agree with everyone on here about it. So I assume you dumped him already??

Well firstly IT IS NOT illeagal to DATE someone younger than 16 if your above it. It IS illeagal to have sex with them though and yeh if he knows your age it is pos that that is all he is after...so...I think you know what has to be done.

anyway who cares about the law when i was 15 i was datin a 20 yr old, we had sex and everything. it was great. Bad advice i know, but i think you should get to know this person before you have sex and i really mean get to know him not his age date of birth his name etc. Then who knows....

^ seriously, don't talk about that in a positive attitude - not here. The definition of pedophilic is "An adult (20) who is sexually attracted to a child (15)." Just because he was a young adult, it doesn't make it any better.
I'm 18, when I look at 15 year olds, I see them as children. It may only be three years, but that's what I see. If a 20 year old can consider 15 year olds (or 14, in the original posters case) as anything but a child, then I think something isn't quite right.

And you just proved everyone's point. He wanted sex from you - and he got it.

"Well firstly IT IS NOT illeagal to DATE someone younger than 16 if your above it. It IS illeagal to have sex with them though and yeh if he knows your age it is pos that that is all he is after...so...I think you know what has to be done."

^^ What makes you think the relationship will only be a relationship. What older guys goes for a girl 5 years younger to have a meaningful relationship. Date, yeah, I'm sure he wants to 'DATE'. Be realistic he wants sex. Which of course is illegal. Hayley is a perfect example. He's obviously going to want to have sex.

break it off. tell him you don't feel it's safe. sorry. bye. done.

age is just a #
Just be careful
Cuz sex is rape in your case
buts its fine if you like him

Age isn't just a number. It represents maturity, wisdom, life experiences.