GoodForNothingDads.

GOD i am SO sick of good for nothing dads.
what compels you to fricken abandon your family
or hit your children or your wife or whoever
"gets in your way"
or how you think alcohol
or drugs should mean
more than your own
damn flesh and blood
get a life seriously i hope you live with
all the guilt in the world and i hope
that everytime you think of us
and what you left behind and how much you have hurt
us, hurt ME, i hope a surging pain runs through your heart.
i hope you slowly wither inside because of what
you do or did.

UGH.

yeah this is just a rant.
i HATE useless dads
and i hate how you cant
hate them no matter how
hard you try all you really
want is for your DAD to come
back, the dad you knew and loved!

You did right to rant! There are hopeless excuses for parents out there - as many good as there are bad.

My exgirlfriend had years of financial and emotional torment from her ex husband. He appeared back on the scene when they were teenagers when all the hard work had been done. If it had have been me he would not have got near the kids. And now she acts like nothing's happened. This is how bullying arrogant males work. I know this because I too am male, but I have the insight.

I hope things go well for you.

Wow wow wow.. settle down..

That is definitely not the description of a 'Dad' or 'Father' figure. That sounds more like a good for nothing person. A father would never do something like that to his wife, or to his children.
I thought this was a rant that brought up some good points. What you stated in the above, does not describe a 'dad' at all.

thats what i mean, how can you do all of this
and still call yourself a dad.
and i realize that its not only "guys"
that do this im just saying it because
from my personal experience it
always has been.

so im not trying to be like "all males are bad!"
lol because they arent.

theres my point,
dont call yourself a dad
when you act like that
you're a pathetic bastard
who needs to grow up
and realize that the world
doesnt revolve around you
or your drugs or your abusing
or any of your other addictions

you have kids, you have your own flesh and blood
to take care of, do you honestly want
them to turn out like you?

i suppose if they're that messed up
then they wouldnt care but
if there isnt one ounce of caring at all
ever, at ONE point in their lives
then they reall are pathetic.

god. i hate it. even fathers who dont lay a hand on you, instead shoose mental or emotional.. thats just as bad-in my veiw, but when they get together........ thats not even a goodfornothing-person.. its not human..

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useless mothers are just as bad

god...i know where your coming from...my dad hasn't hit me in a long time...but i thought he was gonna kill me the other night...he went totally insane...too much f***ing beer i guess...it's a good thing i was in my room...that's all i can say...i'm totally scared of him...of what he might do when he's drunk...which is all the time...we hardly do anything together anymore...i hardly even talk to him...but i'm still scared ya know...especially after last week...sorry...now i'm ranting...and crying...well...i know what you're talking about...you can't hate him even though you should...it's like...he's still your dad...ya know...and i know i'd miss him if he left...but i wouldn't miss the fear...i guess that's it.

yeah i know exactly what you mean
like sometimes i think that i
would rather have my dad here
and have it be bad just because
he would be here but then i think
about how much pain he caused
but still there is that one part of me
that wishes and wishes and wishes
that somehow he'll stop the drinking and
the drugs and maybe he'll love me
i dont know why because i HATE
him so much GOD i could just shoot him
but then there is ALWAYS that one part
and idk if im just being stupid or if
other people feel like that so i just
idk. it hurts. and i dont miss the fear
and the hurt and the screaming matches
but i do miss him, who he was before all of this.

i miss having the strong protecting type of dad.

i completely agree...i feel the same.

I have one of these Dad's and that's the reason I chose to have nothing to do with him. I don't talk to him, ring him, go round to see him, NOTHING, he could die tomorrow and I wouldn't care. Screw the useless dad. Rid your hands of them

yeah i know what you mean
i dont talk to him i dont
want to because he causes
so much crap and pain
even though i say i dont care
if he would die tomorrow
i know that there
would be at least

one

part of me that would.