advice, here ppl, please

hey i need some advice.. if ur in love with ur ex and ur anniversary is coming up, would u give him/her a gift, or just forget it? u kno he/she doesn't care you like him/her but would u still give them a gift?

Key word being EX...and if he doesn't care why should you. If you give him a gift you're only opening yourself up to more heart ache and why on earth would you intentionally do that? Let it go!!! It's not worth it!!!

^^I agree

He/she is your ex, not your current bf/gf. It is not your anniversary coming up. That relationship is over, so you need to move on with your life and stop trying to hang on to someone who doesn't want to be held onto.

~BJ~

yea i guess i agree with u guys......by the way Natalie, i'm a guy, not a girl

I think it's a sweet and thoughtful thing to do, but the thing is why bring up old heartache? Especially if she has moved on, this could possibly put a 'barrier' between you two.

yea ur rite lonely bone. i should forget her.....thankz for giving me advice ppl!

theres a reason you arent together. try and get over it as easily as possible. by buying a gift it makes the process soo much harder
good luck

thankz nicc.................

lol im sorry if thats not what you want to hear.

lol im sorry if thats not what you want to hear.

Sorry adrian ;)

i fink you shud send a card...
put something heart felt but no too pushy :\
i dont want to say give up..
but you cant force someone to be with you...
cause it can only end bad...
sometime syou gota go cold shoulder...

I'm sorry did you say you're in love with her and she doesn't care? WOW! How can you even think about giving her a gift?!? Do you truly think a person who doesn't care about your feelings deserves anything from you, let alone a gift for you guys' "anniversary?" Don't live your life in a fairytale, face reality and the facts. By not facing them, you think you're helping yourself, but instead you're making it worse for yourself. In denial is the worst kind of drug...Love someone who can love you back the way you deserve to be loved!! Don't waste your love on someone who is not worthy...

today's the anniversary, i didn't give her anything, but i told her happy aniversary, and now, i guess we're kinda friends, i hope it stays that way! :)

very smart choice... :-)

Naw dont get them a gift. cuz if they your 3X then they d0nt n33d a gift...y0ur n0t t0g3tha anym0r3...s0 why w0uld y0u c3l3brat3 an anniv3rsay...n0t tryna b m3an...but naw d0nt g3t ya 3X n0thin

rite, and i didn't! you kno we're both mixed up. sometimes we feel like if we're in a raging contest, sometimes we flirt. weird eh? and now we're in a raging contest, DEFINETLY! sad, sad, sad, when the hell will this END!!!!???