A few thoughts please?

  • Truest Lies
    18 years ago

    Your profile says you are fifteen. In my opinion that is too young. I say try to make your parents see that you need more freedom, but wait a little longer. It's still too soon in life to "leave home and seek your fortune."

    //T.L.//

  • Brian King
    18 years ago

    ok... you have amazing poteintal at 15 years old and what your feeling with your family almost everyone goes through at your age, you have to deal with it, and if after however long you still feel the same than think about... really hard. i am impressed with your spirituallity but don't expect fate to save you from the streets. you can go live life to the fullest and enjoy your freedom, but the best advice i can give to some who sounds alot smarter than me: "timing is everything"... so don't jump the gun

  • mistressxsork
    18 years ago

    You should move here! Lol. I will soon dominate Florida. =). BUT. I know what you are feeling. That's been my life for a long time. Except. My parents aren't good people.. so maybe it isn't that bad.. huh?

  • Fluffy
    18 years ago

    WAIT...
    ...Ok, it's not like you're running away- but just hold on a second.

    Yokes, I really want you to think this through. You have amazing potential and you're just like me- wanting to live your life to the fullest. But I’m sorry dude, I can't advise you to live your life on the park bench until fate guides you in the right direction.

    I care a lot about you, Yokie. I know there are alternatives- just can't think of any because I've got the word 'aesthetics' stuck in my head- but that’s beside the point!

    I know you want to achieve the best in life and live your life like no man has- but the way you are going about leaving isn't right. I don't want to burst your bubble and I'm not siding with your parents, but know this; if it were anyone else asking whether to leave their home and live life the way they wanted to- I'd say 'go for it'. But I actually care about your education, knowledge and wisdom. You have a gift, Yokie, and if you take any of the radical actions you speak of- you'll be throwing that gift away.

    Look. Sit your parents down. Tell them your dreams, Yokes. Tell them what you told me about wanting to make a difference- that you KNOW you will succeed and you'll bring an even better life for them when you're ridiculously rich for the utmost random invention or idea. Just, don't do anything that you know will break their hearts. You have family, friends and others who admire you for what you have become. I don't want you growing up like Alan Sugar- luck isn't always guaranteed but a mind like yours is.

    And it’s not only about your relations and friends. I mean, how will you gain that support once you’re down the drain? And did you even think about the ‘what if’s’? Your friends, family and I all know you have an ‘influential purpose’ in the future- but how are you going to manage on your own. I know it’s unfair to say: ‘you’re only 15’- but I’m being just like you in this case- talking by facts =).

    Just, think it over. Please, Yokie.

    -Elysium.

  • Eibutsina
    18 years ago

    I agree with the majority, you seem to be a very grounded young person with plenty of potential and I admire that regardless of your age and achievements or lack there of.
    I would be a hypocrite if I said don't move out of home, I did the same thing at about your age only I wasn't as grounded as you seem to be. It's been hard, part of me wishes I did stay but the other part of me is so proud of who I am today, so proud of the trials I have encountered and conquored on my own and I believe I owe the person I am today to that young girl who had the guts the break out of the mainstream and do it on my own. I became a survivor, I learnt skills my parents and teachers could have never taught me and I'm a stronger, better person because of it.
    Something you must keep in mind is its not easy and at times you will struggle but if you believe in yourself and are 110% dedicated to doing this you will succeed just as I did...
    Goodluck my friend :o)

  • Kevin
    18 years ago

    I really don't know what kind of an answer you expect to get in here for such a complex question. I mean, don't you have friends who know you personally and perhaps know your parents etc?

    Plus, I get twitchy whenever I here someone mention spirit guides having any kind of influence on their thoughts or decisions...sounds to me like you are fragmenting your subconscious so you can externalize truths you can't accept from yourself, ala, spirit guides tell you to sort out your relationship with your parents when you know you should do it off your own back and not for anyone else, be they ethreal or corpereal.

    You know what you want to do, you knew before you asked...this is so silly.

  • Lovely Bones
    18 years ago

    First of all, what do you mean by your 'spirit guides'? Are you talking about what your heart is telling you, or something else?

    Honestly, stay at home. You're 15 and you have a lot of growing left to do, trust me. It's not all about education, it's spiritual, emotional, physical, etc. Stay where you are loved and have the support that you need from everyone that you love. You are going to university soon, correct? You will have plenty of time to do the things you need to do. Enjoy you're childhood, because it won't last forever.

    You talk about fate. If something's meant to be, then it will happen. Don't try to rule over God's will for your life, because the only way we will be truly happy is by doing what we're supposed to be doing. I think that's pretty much the best advice I can give on the topic. But honestly, I know how you feel. I feel like God has given me so much; personal traits and gifts that he can use me for the greater glory, but yet being stuck at home and not being able to fulfill the potential you feel you were made for, kind of feels like being in a cage. But those special gifts and traits will need time to cultivate and grow. When it's time to 'go out there' you'll truly know and there will be no doubt about it.

    Hope I've helped :)
    Take Care - I know you'll make a difference in this world!

  • Brian King
    18 years ago

    "It may be a bunch of trivial electrons fired at your screen, but this has helped me immensely"

    damn girl you are smart... i don't even know what that means?

  • Fluffy
    18 years ago

    Brian. Nuovo is male.

    HAHA.
    Ok- I had to amuse myself somehow!