What Everyone Should Know About Relationships

"There's something that I think everyone should realize about relationships.

One, if you move too fast, then you are bound to get bored sooner or later and the relationship is most likely going to end. So take it SLOW.

Second, don't always go by feelings. Just because you like this guy, it doesn't mean that you are going to be CRAZY about him 24/7. How 'highly' you feel about someone has an equal 'low'. That doesn't necessarily mean that you hate the person, but the romantic feelings aren't always going to be there just because you are in a relationship.

Give it a little bit of time. If it doesn't work, then it doesn't work."

^That's some advice that I gave to a person. Does anybody agree?

Well, having never even been in a relationship (not even close) I wouldn't know, but it sounds like sound advice to me. I hope the person that you gave it to took it the right way :-)

//T.L.//

i agree!!..

sometimes going CRAZY about somebody doesn't mean that relationship is gonna last longer..won't even reach life time..lol

still i think i like great short relationships when you're crazy about the person than a long mediocre one, atleast for now that is

Yeah, thats good, I would give it to someone if they asked me...

Yeah, pretty good advice. It makes a lot of sense.

yes it's good advice.
Thanks by the way :)
I was jsut getting really fustrated and needed some perspective again.

there is too much to kow but in my opnion these ideas or advice pointers stick out

1. Make sure the feelings are true for both of them
2. Don't play games with the person at all
3. Love takes time
4. and so much but I will not continue otherrwise I would go on forever

Romeo & Juliet: 'they stumble who run too quickly'

I disagree with the first part.. well actually I agree, but at the same time, I think if the relationship goes too slow, it can also be very boring. It will seem like it's going no where. If it's going too fast, if both people have been in a relationship, then it may not be AS boring. If it's one person's first time, it could be difficult.

I agree, people believe to have fallen in love because they get a small feeling that attracts them to another person. The stupid thing is, it's a effin attraction, it's not love. Love is more complicated and more beautiful than a mere attraction. They will never understand it, until it comes. But since they automatically think it, they won't find it.

I know what you're saying, Darien, and I agree. However I meant to take it slow sexually/physically, whatever. It's also good to have that little bit of mystery in a relationship. I guess it's about balance in all things, even relationships.