he found my scars-i laughed it off

had no idea i wasnt allowed to write about cutting..or starting a new thread-my appolagies..

...thanx for comments though, it was more about should i or shouldnt i tell him rather than i cut, its a habbit help me.

anyway
love to all
october xx

Tell him. Honesty is essential.

//T.L.//

well tell him the truth, I used to cut really bad but in one area so I have a giant scar and my BF saw it and i told him the truth and he thought the same thing and i just told him , its something I struggle with and he delt with it

yeah, tell him. I mean if he doesnt want to know then he's a jerk, hopefully he'll help you and listen.
If you want to be with him then the golden rule must be no secrets.

well...my cutter mind (does that make any sense?) says hide it at all costs...but i know that's not the right thing to do. tell him...if he loves you then he'll understand.