moving in together

me and my best mate were suposed to be moving in together..at first it was because we both wanted to and our parents were driving us crazy! but now, since she is with her bf and practically lives at his now i get the feeling she dont want to move in with me-my parents are still driving me crazy and when i asked if she had any news on the house, she simple said-why dont you go and find out because i havnt heard anything from them..i want to move out-but i cant do it alone...how can i convince her to move in with me...???

october xx

If she's not going to take a part in it and is always at her boyfriends house, then first of all talk to her seriously about it and make sure she knos that you're serious. Secondly, I'd move in to an apartment at first, especially if it's goin to be by yourself. And you're 21, don't you have a job? make sure you have enough money to be on your own first. I think it's better to work, save your money and put up with your parents crap until you have enough money so that you KNOW you can make it on your own.