Help I am too negative

Hey,
I love my boyfriiend but I always look for faults in our relationship for no reason. How do I stop myself from thinking about the bad parts or the negative things.

My friend does the exact same thing with her relationship. Just know that if you are positive about the relationship, then that will rub off onto it. And if you are negative, it is more likely to fail. A guy doesn't like it when you constantly complain about something about him or a relationship.

-Jenna.

thanks. I will work on it, its just hard.

Honestly I am the EXACT same. Normally when I slip with something, and realize it, I apologize and try to make up right after.

I do the same as Rachel
I used to always dwell on the bad parts and i still sometimes slip up now...
But when i do, he just points out the good things to me and i feel a lot better.
Love is hard, we all expect it to be perfect, but its overcoming the bad things that make it worthwhile

Omg I had realized that I was doing the same thing, and it's weird cause I don't like any faults in the realtionship. So I just solve it with my man and clear things up. But lately I've been being all stingy about many things getting all moody and what not, but then it got to a point where I realized that I should be more sweet and less judgmental about every single thing.
Try to let go some of the things that arent too serious, that he might not even realize like that, but if they are then you should talk to him and discuss about it. Cause the more it starts to get that way the realtionship slowly starts to become into a mess.

In a relationship, you never look for the flaws in the other person. They appear, and you deal with it. I'm not sure how you would stop yourself from looking at the flaws in the relationship. Maybe the problem is bigger than that? Do you look for flaws in your friends or family? If you do, you really need a life changing incident. If it's just the relationship, maybe you haven't found the right person. Just throwing out ideas.

i do the exact same n i dnt really no why...:S i would lo ve to help but wouldnt really HELP u as im pretty much the smae goodluck hun xoxox

If you put doubt into the relationship, don't expect it to last, because your sub-conscious mind is sending you a message. Telling you there is something wrong with the relationship, something that we do not see.

no. Just every relationship with me never lasted so I taking my experiences and assuming it will happen again eventhough I think he is the one so it will probably not happen again.