does he want me?

what do you guys think?

i different guy that i work work talks to me all the time, even notices small changes like my hair cut, my glasses on and my new whistle, we then begin to talk about it and then get on to other stuff, which leads to a very small amount of flirting..when ever he catches me coming out the work shower he says to me to put some clothes on (already wearing towel!) with a huge smile on his face..we have a good thing going because all the other members of staff dont really like him or get along with him..sometimes when he is so cought up in our conversation he will forget about the people around us and start touching my arm (stroking) and tickles me..

..this worries me, as not only am i trying to get with a lad i like but i have my ex hovering around me and this guy's wife is like a body building champ!!

if he did like me and want to start something, i wouldnt and i couldnt do it, as i only like him as a friend and think he is a great little worker and very misunderstood-a little hot tempered sometimes, but still non-the less, he is great.

scary stuff, what do you think?

october xx

thanx monster..but i do work with him! theres no way i could do that, id lose the friendship and respect from him..

october xx

^ and thats a problem?

casual sex is a good thing

Umm if I'm not mistaken, the guy is married? And she's NOT interested? I hope you guys are joking when you say she should have sex with him.

October this guy sounds like trouble to me. I mean, it's good that you too can get along n stuff but if he's going to flirt and tickle you when he's married and you're interested in someone else, that's pretty serious stuff. I'd just have a casual relationship with him and don't go anywhere by yourself with him. Who knows what he'll try. And besides, if people think too much into it by seeing you guys flirt and stuff, then rumors will start to fly and you could lose your job - along with respect from others and yourself. Just somethign to think about :)

Take Care
Sarah-Joy

i totally agree with sarah-joy...she sounds like the only one making any sence..

thanx for all the info, but i really think im just going to stay clear of him.

october xx