Im scared

Okay i did it with this guy but we didn't go all the way we started doing it and it was my first time, so it was hurting...I told him to stop and he stopped. But I did that on October 7th and Im supposed to get my period yesterday b/c I usually get my period on a tuesday and today is wensday...Im afraid that i might b pregnant...The question is: When u have sex does it mess with ur schedule? of ur period?
I didn't know that i was supposed to know when im ovulating....So Im really scared right now...I have a big future ahead of me and I dou't want to make the same mistake my mom did when she was in highschool... SO im begging anybody PLEASE HELP ME????

If You worry about it that can delay your period.. stress can interfere [sp?] with your cycle. Try not to worry and I hope everything is ok

Kristen is right. You need to go to the doctor's.
Or buy a pregnancy test.
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well first of all did you use a condom? and ur sure he didn't cum in u? casue stress can hold back ur period...

Well no we didn't use a condom he forgot to bring it...I was mad that he didn't bring it...But i didn't know that stress can hold back ur period...i have been stressed out alot because im only 16! I asked him to get a pregnancy test thing but he can't b/c for some reason he can't and he won't tell me why...Hes keeping secrets....He cares alot about me we love eachother very much and he thinks that these "secrets" might interfere with our relationship....He told me that if i am he won't leave me, he will be there everystep....But see he told me theres a pill that can stop that baby from growing is that true? Also my mother is pregnant right now also..sooo...Hes doesn't remember if he did....

omg first mistake no condom but ohwell you werent thinking straight so i understand.......... yes there are pills they are called abortion pills but do you really want to kill your child.... if you are having one...... if he is the baby's daddy then first yall need to solve the secrets I didnt and that ended in a disaster....... I hope your mom and the baby will be okay........ how can he not remember..... okay well let me know how everything goes

You can still get pregnant even if he pulled out without climaxing in you, you should go buy a pregnancy kit to be sure, i hope that you aren't pregnant because at 16 you still have a long life ahead to enjoy before you decide to start a family. Next time use a condom or ask your doctor about the pill ( no not the abortion pill if there is such a thing).

There is a pill.. called the morning after pill.. it can be used up to three days after havin sex.. don't think you can call it an abortion pill at that stage

Well after I lost it my period was 3 days late. I was worried so I don't think the stress helped. Wait a week and see if you get it or not. After that time to buy a test. Good luck

He did tell wat was the secret was...He had problems with gangs down there and if he goes down there he would get hurt...He told me this morning that he went down there he almost got muged and stabbed. Well I don't want a kid at 16 so if i am then i have to get the abortion pill b/c i have things i want to do.....My boyfriends cousin is wanting to become a doctor and he said if i go in a jucuzzi it will kill the baby...If i do the pill won't they have to surgically remove the baby? It can't just dissapear can it?

No it can't dissapear...but it is so little at that point that it would be like you just bleed alot and stuff...but it would really be the baby leaving...My father is a doctor...he's studies this stuff...so I think I know...

I'm pretty certain that the morning after pill can only be taken within the first 3 days after having sexual intercourse, this being the case it is too late to take it anyway.. get a pregnancy test or go to the Drs

The lesson to take from this shambles is not to have sex. You've been naieve, irresponsible and with any luck you've learnt from it.

If you must have sex (and no one must have sex) then only have protected sex, you're in this mess now because you carried on even after knowing he didn't bring a condom. You are just as responsible for this as he is.

I know I sound harsh, I know it may sound mean but all of it is true but you should be scared and you have to understand it means to be an adult. You're sixteen, barely alive and yet you all think you know better.

Bloody Tears, you should be following the same advice. You're being even more irresponsible for condoning unprotected sex.

Bloody idiots, no wonder there are so many teen parents in the world, you get all this education about contraception and how important it is and what do you do with it? Have babies, that's what.

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