Please help!! I need advise!!!

please give me some advice!!!

Ive known this guy for like 4 years now and i really care about him...It seems like he gives other gurls a chance but us. I know he cares about me ..he told me so...I know everything about him and thats why i think he wants to keep me there so when he's ready to settle down i'll be there..but i cant wait forever!!Now recently he has come back into my life telling me if i want to get serious to let him know..and he'l drop all the girls he talk to, to have me...but he told me he's scared to be in a relationship again!! so why would he tell me thse things if he's scared??? Im so confused what should i DO????

aww...wow i knew this guy for that long too and hes my best friend sad huh?? i do feel likehim alot!but he gives other poeple chance and not me but yeah w/e it hurts to talk about it!!!anyways he sacre b/c u never know whats going to happen in a reationship just give him time until he gets over w/e...just be open for him and let him know how u feel!!!!

Hmm, he seems a tad confused himself. You really care about him - but is it as a friend; or as more then a friend? You need to sit down and think about what could be the consequences of dating and possibly ruining a great friendship. Or maybe you will date and find he is better as a friend and things will remain that way. Whatever it may be - think it through first.

My friend likes this guy a lot, and he said he doesn't want to get into any serious relationships because a lot of other girls like him, and he doesn't want to hurt anyone. Maybe the same kind of thing?

-Jenna.

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Theres many things that bother me about this situation because I dont know where me and him stand and i want to tell him how those things bother me but i dont want to seem pushy or like I want to rush into something...How do i tell him????

????anyone