Weird feeling.

I am in love with someone online, I never would have expected for me to fall in love online..We have been together, for about four months now, and it's been wonderful. We talk about 2 hours a day, and he calls twice a week at the least. I was gone for a few days and he told me he had this weird feeling, like I didn't want to be with him or something, but I love him, and he tells me he never wants to leave me, and that his weird feeling is probably just from missing me, and from being lonley for the few days I was gone..Do you think thats true? becuase I'm worried..Should I be, or should I just trust him. I never want us to be apart, and I'm going to meet him soon. Thank you.

Honestly, i don't really think online relationships are a good idea. You don't even know him. For all you know, he could be some 40 year old sex offender. I would be careful. I don't really know what to say. If you care about him, trust him.

Well, thanks.

I agree with punk...that isn't safe for you.I wouldn't try it.I've been where you are now.I almost started a relationship with someone on the internet.
So DON'T DO IT, PLEASE!!!!!!!
gO OUT WITH SOMEONE AROUND YOU IT'S MUCH SAFEFER.

Totally agree with punk..

I had friends in highschool that played pranks on people and pretended to be someone they weren't. You shouldn't really trust people on the internet. If you met them in person, or called them or had a webcam convo with them, it's a little different, but also remember, people act different behind a screen.. behind a phone. The best way to meet people.. is face to face

hey i've been with my bf calum for 2 yrs and he has just asked me to marry him we met online about 3 yrs ago and i neva thought anything would happen as we live 300miles apart but well it has and yes everyone told me he was 30 yrs old and a pedo but i didn't believe them and when i first met him i took my mates so there where like 6 of us and well we're still together and i love him so don't always believe what ppl say if u wanna know more add me lonely_lass@hotmail.co.uk kk bye xxxxx

there is more bad than good that usually happens first thing that came across my mind was rapist.....i wouldnt be suprised....life before love always remember that....ecspecially that kind of love

If you have talked to him on teh phone...then there is a chance that he is not apedo or anything like that, but if you want to go meet him just take my advice...GO WITH OTHER PEOPLE TO A PLACE THAT YOU KNOW VERY WELL THAT HAS A LOT OF OTHER PEOPLE THERE!!!

angel,

You are older than the person who posted the thread. She is 13 years old, which is a very vulnerable age. It would be best if she found a relationship, with someone she meets in real life, rather than on the internet. You were fortunate enough to find someone who was really real, she is yet to know this person's true identity. It is better to give her safe advice, than a personal experience type of advice.

i dated someone online for a year and a half. it doesnt work out, no matter how long youve been together and no matter how you feel. long distance just really sucks and id rather be dating a different guy every other week in real life then being stuck online writing how much you love eachother when theres nothing really there.

and your a kid, your supposed to be dating and experimenting and doing things that make you mature and grow. dont catch yourself online writing love notes. go outside and play with your friends, go experience life.

maybe some do work out, but its very rare. it was just my opinion on my experiences. i said theres nothing there, and in most cases there isnt. its better to stick to real life, its safer.

well, i think its ok to love someone online, as long as you know that your for sure hes really who he says he is

okies I met my ex online who I dated for almost one and a half years! we only broke up cause he had to move away from me! and I also met one of my best friends online. if you've seen the person on cam lots of times and spoken on the phone then go with your feelings, but please meet in a public place and bring a friend:D

i met my husband online 5 years ago, i didnt meet with him for 3months, but when we did meet, i moved in with him 2 weeks later, now we are happily married with a little boy.

its all up to you, just be careful and when you do finally meet, make sure you are in a familiar open space, but im sure it will be fine

and if you love him, trust him, thats all you can do. and if he abuses that trust, then you know he is not the person for you.

good luck

I wish you luck.
Yes online dating is a big risk but the media only ever attracts the negative stories so we never hear the good stories so we always automatically believe every guy on the internet is a pedo.
Since you've spoken to him on the phone, you'll probably know him better than just by being online.
But still, take a bunch of friends with you if you plan on meeting him
Oh, and people downing this? What if the lads friends are saying exactly the same thing...
Trippy.
Good luck hun
♥

becarefull who you meet online. i thought i met the perfect man but we met in person and it was nothing like what he said or is online.. so i kept him as a internet boyfremd..lol

my boyfriends dad and step mom met online a few months after his mom died. i didnt no him then... but his step mom is wicked cool...

anyways you wont no if you accually "love" him until you see him face to face... they may be feelings your heart and mind has made up beacuse you to talk so much. . . well anywhos be carefuil with people you meet online stilll deary.

yup,
he's a creeper.