Times ticking

My 18th is coming up soon and this is my mom's last chance to contact me before i cut her out of my life completely.
To cut a long story short, i used to live with her in South Africa until her boyfriend did some things i couldn't deal with (I was only a kid) She didn't believe me and sent me back to England to live with my dad where i have done for the last 5 or 6 years.
During this time, she only contacted me when she felt like it and like the gullible sucker i am, i welcomed her back into my life each time.
But for the past two i've only had the odd text every now and again. She married the sick guy and had twin daughters with him who i've never met and never wanted to. And as for my brother who came with me, she's never ever tried to speak to him. Only me.
I don't know what to do anymore. She's my mom but she's hurt me so bad.
Is this right or wrong by giving her one last chance to contact me on my 18th or thats it?
*Gem*

I guess so. I guess we don't know if any choices we make are right or wrong until we get the aftermath of them..

aww...thats so sad...you shouldnt think like that she is your mom...u should tell her how u feel about it!!! and if she act like she dont care then forget her!!!!!!

aww...thats so sad...you shouldnt think like that she is your mom...u should tell her how u feel about it!!! and if she act like she dont care then forget her!!!!!!

im sure, like any mom she would regret doing what she did.

and im sorry for saying this, but she honestly doesnt care. if she did she would call you every day and try to be a part of your life. judging on how you said the guy was doing things you didnt like, shes probably in a bad relationship. she probably doesnt care enough about herself to care about anyone else.

im really sorry about this, and i know exactly how you feel. ive never met my father, but recently hes been coming around, and i think thats only because my brother left for the navy.

shes your mom and children are naturally forgiving to parents. you got your dad, be thankful for that. good luck in whatever decisions you make.

Your all so sweet, at least i know i'm not the only person with problems like this. I mean, i woulnd't wish them on anyone but i don't feel so alone about it now.
And your right, i should concentrate on what i have not on what i don't.
Thankyou xxx