*vents*

I don't know where to post this..
I think i might be pregnant. I'm not going to ask what to do cos i still need to take the test yet, but i know what it feels like being pregnant and i've been feeling it all weekend.
I just don't know how i would tell Marcus if i am.
We've talked about having kids sure, but not this early. We've still got 2 more years untill we marry and we're both not ready for a child yet.
It's like all of a sudden, my whole world has changed.
Although i'm trying not to get worked up untill i'm positive, i can't help but wonder what if, and i want to get my mind ready if i am... if that makes sense.
I guess this is kind of a vent.
Oh and i'm not a teenage slut. I'm in a serious engagement and have my future planned with him and i'm also on the pill, but it looks like that doesn't matter anymore.
Ahhhh!!!!! *vents*
*Gem*

Well i dont kno wat to say Because i am in the same situation sorta, because after me and my ex broke up at the end of september, i sorta slept w/ 3 guys in october and i think i might be pregnant. but then again i dont think i am, Because i just got off my period then i slept w/ em and used no condum, then the second one i slept w/, we didnt use no condum either and i had my period like the next day after we freaked. then the 3rd one i actually used a condum, so im not sure wat to do now because i am confused? can u still have ur periods and still be pregnant? so hopley we can bounce ideas off of each other!

Well, all I can say is that I hope that everything turns out for the best. Nothing is coincidence, so if you are pregnant then take it as a blessing.

Take Care and God Bless,
Sarah-Joy :)

hey, i got pregnent once, the easyest way is to take the test, if its possitive then u just tell him you haven't had your "monthy ruteen" if you need help figureing out what to say, contack me, it will all work out for the best ^_^

Gemma, just curious, are you against having an abortion?

Anyway, in response...If you are on the pill and you are taking it regularly (the awy you are supposed to take it!), and not missing days, there is clsoe to no chance that you are pregnant. Even if you have missed a day every now and then, there is still a very slim possibility that you are pregnant. You should take the test, and soon. I would tell your fiance about it as well, right away...knowing that you might be pregnant is just as important to him as it is to you, and you may be able to talk about it...decide what you would do if you were to get pregnant before you are ready to have a child/children. I think if you are in a sexual relationship with anyone, pregnancy should always be an acknowledged possibility that the two people should discuss. I am 18 and I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years...when we first starting having sex we came to an agreement that if i got pregnant somehow (even though i was on the pill at the time), that I would have an abortion. Neither of us are ready to have a child, and I don't want to raise a baby before I am ready, I think that would be cruel. Children should never be a punishment. Anyway, I think I rambled enough there haha....ok, my advice: talk to your boyfriend as soon as possible, as well as get tested as soon as possible.

By the way, Tiffany...you sound like you WANT to get pregnant or get an std...having sex with random guys without a condom? I'm sorry but honestly, that is very stupid. IF you're going to sleep around, wearing a condom isn't a bad idea. Good luck with that..

by the way...no, you can't have your period and be pregnant.

ugh

' by the way...no, you can't have your period and be pregnant.'

Yes You can still have monthly bleeds all the way through pregnancy, although uncommon, it does happen.. That is the reason some people don't know they are pregnant until towards the end or until they go into labour.. It is very rare but I know someone that continued having monthly bleeds throughout.

holy shit? no way, i want to figure out how that is possible...maybe i will do some research. thanks for the interesting information donna, i was unaware.

yeah, cause i had my period until i was in my 3rd month, but gurl if your thinking of getting an aborthion, you only have so little time, but honesly before i was pregnent i thought a person my age keeping it was stupid, but when i found out, i could help but to want to keep it, do what you think is right

I know a girl who had a one night stand but she was on her period so she didn't think she could get pregnant while having sex on her period. 9 months later she had a son. Just goes to show that you can never be too careful.

did you know that right before your periode and on your period is when your more risky to get pregnent?

actually i believe it's when you are ovulating which is suposed to be exactly between one period and the next. then agian, i'm not sure which is kind of embarrasing. we're girls, we're supposed to know these things! haha oh gosh

you are both wrong:P well kinda yes you can only get pregnant when you ovaluate and that is normally in the middle (second week) but as a one sperm can live for up to 5 days and some people actually only ovaluate during their period (whoever does not believe me should, I studied Humanbiology) so unless you know when you ovaluate you are always at risk (some people know this by getting pains in the ovaries when it happens) hope I helped and tiffany please if you have not already done it get a check up on STD's and a pregnancy test.

I want to thank you all from the bottom of my heart for your help.

I spent practically all weekend just worrying about it. Then the day i posted (Monday) on the way home from college, he asked me why i was being so snappy with him. I said lots of things and Marcus said, "Yeah, well as long as none are because of me" and i snapped. "Well one of them is!"
He just looked at me and said. "You think your pregnant don't you."
I nodded and we spent the rest of the bus journey in silence untill the bus went past my doctors and Marcus got up and said, let's go.
He told me, there was no point in worrying, we'd go get an emergency appointment.
I felt like such a teenage slut standing there asking to see a doctor. I also felt mean cos i just clammed up and couldn't say anything. Thank god for marcus. He did all the talking, explained i might be pregnant and we needed to make sure.
The women was very helpful to. She gave me a bottle and asked for a sample and asked me to bring it in the next morning so she could send it off and i'd get the results the next day. Which would normally take ages but she was being nice.
We left but then Marcus said. "We're taking a test now. Let's got to the chemist"
once again, the ladies there were very helpful. rather than letting us pay £15 for a home test, she took us both upstairs and said £5 and we'll do it for you. You both look upset.
We were, we were both trembling and while i was taking a sample, Marcus confessed he broke down in the other room and told the lady that this could change our lives but he would stand by me all the way. Which made me cry too. *sheepish shrug*
I couldn't watch the test but when i heard Marcus yell, she's not!! I broke down too.
I think it was with relief.
So... i'm not pregnant.
Marcus yelled at me for not telling him when i thought i knew cos he said he didn't want me going through something like that alone. And it made me realise how lucky i am for having him.
I would still be panicking i'm pregnant if he had not made me take that test right away.
I love him

Wow.. another huge vent.
But thankyou guys. You were all such rocks for me.
Thankyou xxxxx