Best Friend jelousy over my Boy Friend

i have never been good with lads, but i found a really kool guy, we have alot in common and work the same job, have the same friends..im so happy with him, but my happiness is put on hold when my best friend acts like a cow.

she has always been with guys,one straight after the other, and she is now happy with an older guy, or so i think there happy..but she gets jelous when she wants to come round or meet up and im already doing something with my boyfriend.

i cant see what her problem is as she does it to me all the time when she is with someone.

when i suggested we meet up, she agreed and then all night she was complaining how she thought i meant just me and her! and was being totally mean to my boyfriend by ignoring him and not even giving him a chance, petty little sarcastic things were being said through our conversations too..

i dont understand why she is behaving like a fool to him when his friends are ok with me.

is this just me? am i to blame? or am i right in thinking my friend is jelous that i have now found someone great and that im not her 'beck and call girl' any more?

october xx

okay, so i'm not the best person for advice necessarily, but i'll try. I think you're right when you say she's jealous because she isn't your main focus any more. Now that you have a boyfriend, she's not the center of your attention any more....i think you should try and schedule time with both of them separately, and see if that helps...and always check with both of them to make sure that it's okay that all of you hang out.
Hope it helps.
Shay

she is being very selfish, and you need to explain that to her. if you have a chance to be with someone, she should be happy and supportive. friendship isn't a one way street, it's all about give and take. if you've never stood in the way of her relationships, why should she stand in the way of yours? talk to her about it, maybe you can reassure her that this guy isn't replacing her.