confused behind hidden walls..help

ok i got this problem..im goin out wit this guy who i have been friends wit for over 3-4 years..we are like a perfect match many ppl say....but there some problems no one can know about us b/c i used to go out wit his brother 3 yrs ago ..thats how we met..then later on i went out wit his ex b/f and he went out wit my ex b/f.....and alota ppl question about like his parents and some other ppl and its like we say nah nothis goin on but i hate that! but i kno it would bring so many problems.... any ideas?

you dont know these ppl..it would be like world war three...some ppl could kno but there are three who wouldnt be to happy and i dont know wat they would do....

Oh I know what you mean. I think you should just kinda slowly bring it out that you guys are going out. Dont just suddenly start making out in public and junk. That would make people question even more. Instead bring it about casually, then if people dont think that you should be together for some reason or another, tell them that it doesnt matter. the past is the past, and this is your life. If you guys really care about eachother than its all good. Love will prevail, just tough it out. Sorry if I didnt help at all. I tried. Good luck! Peace out.

"Love will conquer all"

Okay your explanation REALLY confused me, but I`ll still try.

You USED to go out with his brother, you aren`t anymore. Obviously if you two are together now then his brother is alright with it, if not, it would be starting a lot of bickering.

You went out with his ex boyfriend and he went out with yours? That confuses me. Is he bi? That`s the only thing that makes sense to me right now about that. But if he is with you now, then forget about the past. Just worry about what is to come. If you spend your days wallowing in the past, you`ll cause problems between you to and start to distance yourself.

People read the dates :P

Lmao. Another 2003?
Dang.

People please don't respond to threads four years later lol :P

HAHA ! Ohhh, darn, eh?
Didn`t even notice that.

How do post form 4 years ago reappear? Weird.

Somebody finds one and bumps it up

Who really CARES!

DUDE, so what if u use to go out with his brother, it didnt last aiight? he wasnt the right one eh?

if you really love this guy and if you are reallly soul mates, then HEY GO FOR IT! stuff the world, stuff what people think, stuff his brother
and if your bf acts all weird about it
THEN STUFF HIM!