is it wrong?

  • BeautifulxMess
    18 years ago

    My cousin is pregnet, she's 15. People talk about her, my friends do. I mean, I kinda don't blame them. It's not right to get pregent anyways. So really what should I tell her? Get over it? Don't listen to them? I mean if you think about it, I think both answers are right.But...at the same time both are wrong..What should I do?

  • BeautifulxMess
    18 years ago

    But the problem is I kinda agree with what they say..I'm not very happy about her pregnancy becuase I know she's better than that..well I thought she was. But sounds wrong but. Is it wrong for agreeing with my friends about it also?

  • BeautifulxMess
    18 years ago

    You didn't have to use profanity

  • Sherry Lynn
    18 years ago

    Though you do not agree with her being pregnaunt (and I understand totally) the fact is that she is now and that cannot be changed.

    I strongly suggest that you support her no matter how hard it is and try to come to terms with her pregnauncy with in yourself.

    This is going to be a very difficult time for everyone, but the last thing that your cousin needs right now is to feal that you are against her and the baby.

    Pregnaunt people are very emotional and moody. Even if you are not against it she may feal that you are and it would put a strain on your relationship.

    Tell your friends that things happen and no one is perfect. Tell them that it is not them who became pregnaunt and they should all rally together to help you and your family through this.

    Get them involved as well. Plan a surprise baby shower and enlist them to help. Maybe if they feel like they can be a part of this event then they will stop talking negative and jump on te band wagon with you.

    Just make sure that you show support and love to your cousin.

    Srry if it comes across harsh, but I am only giving my opinion and advice.

    --Sher

  • Lori Lee
    18 years ago

    I think the people talking about her need to be quiet. and no, it's not wrong. it's just something that happened. and she's not gonna go to jail for it, so it can't be that wrong.

  • xfAdInGxaWaYx
    18 years ago

    I agree with Poetess.

  • Hatori
    18 years ago

    I make a third person. I agree with the last two people before me.