Whats going on

well theres this guy
i like him he likes me, i couldnt see a prob then i find out he been tlkin to another girl and sayin he likes her to, so im confused there i confronted him he said he should of told me just wasnt easy which is fair enuff, however the other girl told him its me or her so now i mite lose him

before all this happendd i slept wiv an ex worst idea cos i think this is why all this started

wat u think i should do bout it
try and win him over to pick me
thats immature shes 14 im 17 hes 16
it just doesnt make any sence we was so happy and now shes killing it
wat am i ment to do??

thank u xx

He might not have been happy seeing as how he was saying it to another girl. And how does sleeping with an ex amount to this? I don't see a connection unless you think it's some kind of bad karma. Love goes with any age, maybe he really does like her. I mean, I see her point he should choose not string the two of you along. She makes a good point with him having to choose.

You get him: Hooray enjoy it.
She wins him over: Go get some icecream, a girl friend to hang out iwth, and an all out movie fest.

Just some advice.

^ sound, pratical advice
that's agreeable. Triangles get worse when they drag on. The three of you has to cut one point off. Hope everyone would be alright with the decision at the end...though putting in my vote..I don't think a guy like that is worth your time and emotion. If he can be split between you and her now...he can be split between you and some other girl even if he chooses you right now. Think carefully and don't think about unrelated issues...the ex part was pretty confusing haha what is the connection anyway??