Need advice- its about my bf

  • ellewen
    18 years ago

    I am going through that phaze of the relationship with my bf where we run out of things to say. SO when this happens we play a common game that people around here refer to as ?'s. (questions) and we take turns asking eachother these so called questions for example. "if you could summarize me in 3 words what would they be?" Or <insert here>

    thats the problem lol, I cannot think of anymore. Anyone got any questions I could ask? Or even wierd topics to discuss or something. IDK lol many people have that problem apparently and have made it though. So i am seeking their secrets.

  • Hidden Feelings within these Words
    18 years ago

    Yeah, me and my boyfriend never run out of things to talk about. lol..We've been dating 7 months and spend everyday together. And it is also nice to be able to just sit on the couch or something and not talk. lol We have alot in common, though.

  • Gem
    18 years ago

    I'm not sure cos me and Marcus have never had that problem, when we don't talk, we're quite happy with a comfortable silence as well.
    You don't always have to talk to each other, try just being close and enjoying the company

  • Jaime
    18 years ago

    I don't really have any advice; I've never had this problem with my boyfriend. Just talk, tell him about what you did that day, or what your plans are. Whatever you're thinking about, just say it, and it could probably get a conversation going.

    Or, just turn on the tv and watch it together if you have to. Find a show you both like, and you could always discuss that as it's on.

  • Christen
    18 years ago

    I dont know? me and my ex of 4 years just broke up and after that i hooked up with someone else and me and that boy broke up after 3 weeks because we ran out of things to say. I dont know talk about food, music, love, friends, go places, go to the park. ? I hope that helps.

    :]

  • ellewen
    18 years ago

    Well allot of them dont help bc i never get to see my bf anymore. My parents think he is to old for me. when we do see eachother we are hanging out with other people too.

  • Fluffy
    18 years ago

    Oh, now I'm feeling all nostalgic!

    I remember every week on Sunday, Fahad would say something just so we would start a conversation and avoid doing any work. Then he'd tell me that I 'talk too much' with that alluring smile. :)

    Sigh, those were the days...

  • ellewen
    18 years ago

    Thanks for the advice (all) <hugs>