My little issue.

  • Isabelle
    18 years ago

    Okay, I really like my boyfriend, Cody. He's nice, but he never really cheers me on or anything. We go to different schools, so I only see him every two weeks, if that. We held hands once on our first date, but since then he hasn't really came near me. I mean, my friends, and his sis say he still likes me and everything, but the thing is...well, I'm just not feeling the same now. I still care, and like him, just not as much as before. We have nothing in common anymore...or so it seems.
    I kinda like somebody else as well. His name is Tom. He has depression, like I do, but he's not always sad around me.. He always encourges me whenever I need it, and he really likes to write poetry and stories, like I do. Just two days ago, when I said I felt like a wall in everybody's life: he told me not feel bad. He said I was unique, and so beautiful that I deserved to be in God's mosaque, and forever preserved.
    I don't know what to feel...I mean, I hardly ever get to date anybody, so I want to stay with Cody, but I really like Tom as well. I have been going out with him for 2 months and one week. That's pretty long for me...usually the guy says I'm too butt-ugly looking and he leaves me. So yeah...some third person advice would be GREAT!

    ~*Issie*~

  • The Tears I bleed
    18 years ago

    Lol on some levels, I know how you feel... but ok, heres the deal. No one can tell you how to feel or what to feel. You have to listen to your heart. and just because you hardly get to date anyone, is not a good reason to stay with this cody guy dude. plus if u stay with cody, u wont get to date too many ppl at all cuz u will already be in a relationship... if i was you, would go out with this Tom guy. you two seem to really connect. and dont let people get you down, they just want to bring others down cuz they know that one day you'll be happy!

  • limp
    18 years ago

    It's pretty simple, ask Tom if he likes you back, but definitely break up with the Cody one. He's obviously not that interested, he just wants something to call girlfriend, and should be making more of an effort, he's not worth your time so don't waste it on him.
    x

  • xfAdInGxaWaYx
    18 years ago

    Dump Cody and ask Tom out. Simple.