Who's in the wrong?

  • Ele
    17 years ago

    This guy whos a friend of a friend walked me home from the club a couple of weeks ago and he asked for my number. i didnt think anything of it at the time and i didn't see any reason not to give him my number. but a couple of nights ago he was sending me some really obscene messages saying things like 'come round i wanna sexually abuse you' and other things that i can't even repeat on here!
    the next day i told him i didnt appreciate him talking to me like that and then he send me loads of abusive messages saying that its my own fault for giving him my number in the first place! he reckons im too easily offended and its my own fault. does any body else think i brought it on myself?

  • 19Rusty
    17 years ago

    A little bit yes but the only part was giving him your number. Someone like him who keeps on doing that has a problem and clearly has issues if it gets worse I'd tell someone quick.

  • Ele
    17 years ago

    I havent heard from him today which is good. i just couldnt believe it. he seemed like such a nice guy then he suddenly turned.

  • Corinne
    17 years ago

    Tell him you've kept all the messages and that you'll turn them over to the police if he doesn't stop harassing you. It's against the law

  • Ele
    17 years ago

    Nah i couldnt do that. it seems a bit extreme

  • Normal is the Watchword
    17 years ago

    No the messages are a BIT extreme

  • Roxy
    17 years ago

    Sh*t wrong post HAHA...sorry!! Clicked on wrong message...:P
    Ok well for what you said...:
    You kinda pushed the situation onto yourself though only a small majority.
    It's mainly that guy for hassling you. I hate guys who do that makes me feel low.

  • BECLiKEW0AHH
    17 years ago

    ^ agreed 100%.

    Thats a discusting thing what he said to you. Don't stand for it.

  • Stephanie Naylor
    17 years ago

    He sounds gross, and you should just try to ignore him, and if that doesnt work, bring it up with sum one who will help you with his obsenities