My Heart's Breaking

If you had two people telling you that they really care about you and love you, how do you know which one to choose?

I asked a good friend of mine that had been through what I've been through (cheated on, hurt) and she said to follow my heart. Well my heart says to cheat but I'm against cheating.

I don't know what to do.

Please don't tell me how wrong I am or stupid I am for asking but I've never had this problem between two guys [[ I ]] also love and care about. One is a half a day away and the other is a day away.

I'm hurt&torn!!

That's something you need to decide for yourself; nobody here can help you.

But- if you're considering cheating on someone, than you do not deserve them, in my opinion. I suggest that you end that relationship, as a courtesy to them.

I won't ever cheat.

People who cheat are immature.

I agree with the girl above. you need to decide for yourself. but i went through the same thing and i was completely lost.

first i was dating 'bob' and now i am dating 'jim' and here is how it went down

'bob loved me to peacess, jim also did. bob and i met maybe 3 days before, jim and i met 3 years before.

i stayed with bob for about 3 months and it was a mutual decision to break up. then jim and i dated he treated me badly and we broke up. i then dated 'joe' and we lasted for a week then i went back to jim and ended up breaking up with him and then stayed single and sorted out my head for a while. then 1 year later, to the day that me and jim began dating the first time me and bob got back together and we have been that way for 9 months now. haha now. don't follow my example because it will prob turn out diff if you try and follow it. but thats what happened to me. and dear just let yourself roll you will find the wrong way soon enough, and then some one will pull you back on track and at that moment you will know who you are supposed to be with.

Umm.. cheating is wrong and it hurts. if you have been cheated on you know that and you shouldnt be a b_tch enough to hurt someone like that if you really do "love" them.
ive been there and i stuck with my man. and it worked out just wonderfully.
stick with yours if it feels right... if you really love your boyfriend youll trust that he's the right decision

If you're not going to cheat, then good for you. At least you're trying to be responsible about this.

If you have the urge to cheat, even if you would never do it, then I would still suggest breaking up with the person you are currently with.

I agree with the person up there^, who I think was basically trying to say: Take some time to yourself and think about what you want. If you can't decide between two people, then pick yourself, and spend some time getting to know you. With time perhaps circumstances will change, as will feelings.

Well if you heart is telling you to be with the other guy have the common courtesy to dump the guy your with to prevent breaking his heart.

Dont cheat but if you really care for one of them more than the other than go with that one. ask them personal questions and see who better for you