{I Feel Rejected}

Alright so as some of you know i recently told my boyfriend that i love him and today is our 3months and yet all he says is that it is too soon and that it isnt love its infacuation and that he has feelings for me but he isnt in love wit me...Alright so i stopped talkin about it but then he brung it up, he was tellin me how he was just thinkinn about it whenhe was at work because its not everyday that your girl tells you that they love you and stuff and he just said that it was too soon, that i was too young and that he wasnt trying to fall in love anytime soon...what does that mean?

He isn't ready to be locked down by the words 'i love you'. They are powerful words but once you utter them they can act like shackles, they lock you down. I dont think he's ready for that yet.

It means exactly what he said: that he isn't trying to fall in love anytime soon. He's not ready. Saying "I love you" to somebody really is a big thing. He doesn't sound ready for that kind of commitment.

I haven't read any of your posts besides this one, but I notice that you post A LOT . After all the people telling you what you do, you'd think that you would've learned to at least realize the most obvious things .
He's being honest with you . Guys aren't normally that straight up with a girl that told them that she loved him . Respect that, okay ? It means exactly what he said it means .
And agreed with Angelina . "When will you finally be able to make decisions on your own?"

..__MiNDYY

Alright i know i post "A LOT" but its just because i have made soo many mistakes in the past i just like to see what other people would do in my situations so i can see if my dicisions was right or wrong and i dont ALWAYS take everyones advice that they post i mean its just nice to know some times...you know?But i do appreciate all the advice that has been given...thankz

Well figure it out on your own.
Your the only one who can decide what you want and what you need to do in order to be happy!
So instead of posting EVERYTIME you have something happen why don't you talk to a friend, not a hundred of people on this site.

^ Exactly .

Umm just lettin you guys know i dont ask you for advice about everything....i dindnt ask you for advice with my other boyfriend...like when he cheated on me wit my best friend, or maybe when he got her pregnant, or do you remember me asking you what i should do when i found out that he had AIDS..no i dont recall me asking anybody for advice at all and yes i do ask my friends for advice all the time but like i said it doesnt hurt to know what someone else would do....

*P.S. No i never got AIDS, we never had sex...

Jeez, people. No need to jump on her. Maybe she just needs people to hear her out because she doesn't trust other people to vent or ask questions to.

I think that he's being mature about the situation, like Bob said. I mean, how would you feel if he told you he loved you and later on you found out that he didn't mean it? He might just need time to realize what he wants in the relationship, and maybe even he wants for it to be the perfect time to tell you he's in love with you.

If you ever want to talk, IM me.

Thanks i appreciate it...

*Angelina
I apprecite you "trying to help" but its not really helping when you are saying stuff like that i mean i think it would make you kinda sad or mad if i were to say that to you, but thats your opinion and you may think what you want...

Yea and i appreciate the HARDCORE advice but when im feeling bad and sad and stuff i thnk you could sugar coat a lil bit