[ emergency !!] the DARK SPOT in ur face![ PROBLEM]

  • SECRET
    17 years ago

    HELLO!!..help me here could you?

    tell me abt this moles thinggy. how do u get it off ur skin? i really need come advise here. i dun wan my bf to se me this ugly. and the moles in my face are getting more and more!!..and i'm kinda embrassed to face my bf after our summer vication!!.

    can sumone giv me and advise?.wat to do?.is there ani soulution to this? or ani cream? etc etc,

  • my name is Llama
    17 years ago

    As far as i'm aware there is no cream. just put on lots of sunscreen when u go out in the sun so that they don't get bigger. if they change in colour and size dramatically it could be a melonoma in that case check with your doc. otherwise the only way to remove them is through plastic surgery

  • SECRET
    17 years ago

    Plastic surgery?!!..i hate the word of it.

    seriouesly i'had found dis well not a cream but well how do i put it. but ppls had commented dat ithad worked!..but i lost the website...and well..ahh i dun want plastic sugery!!..

  • my name is Llama
    17 years ago

    The skin more likely prevents your moles from getting any bigger or from developing more but i highly doubt that any cream would take away moles. think about it...that cream would be plastered everywhere and whoever made it a millionaire

  • TheWorldFellNUWerentThere
    17 years ago

    LIKE OMG!! I don't know why the hell your freaking out for. I have them too, yeah their going to be embarassing but it's what makes them you. If your boyfriend saw them and he doesn't seem to be bothered about it then it means he doesn't care about what's wrong with you or anything because he loves you. If he's freaked out about it and that then screw him.

    I have the same problem its just I get them on my arms. The only way your gonna get rid of them is to wait it out, the older you get they sometimes go away, and cosmetic surgery is another option but they cost over $400 just for like a couple moles.

    Just think of them as your beauty marks. If people don't like them then they aren't a true friend.

    And don't get so damn freaked out about the whole cancer thing because it's pretty rare. I thought I had it because it didn't look right. The only thing your going to be worrying about is if it gets like where it's not normal. Look on the internet about the stuff so if it starts looking like it then you can get an appointment with the dermatologist.

  • Of Sweet Insanity
    17 years ago

    I'm sorry. . . I dont have very good advise but the first two answers seem pretty good. Good luck :( I dont think your b/f will freak. :)

  • TrueLovesVictim
    17 years ago

    My brother had a mole removed on his arm... he said it was lazered/lazored (dunno how its spelt =( sorry ) off. it could have been cancerous or whatever.. it was getting bigger.

  • SECRET
    17 years ago

    This is mole not frickels or wateva. u call it. and it became darker so fast. like in 3 days!.and more are comming. i heard there is a solution , my uncle is searching it for me. hope he finds it.

    and abt my bf ..i hope he won't mind. even if he leaves me i won't be dat sadden by it. and wen u say who cares abt moles? i care!!..it's not only on my arms it's on my face also!!..almost all over!!..ahh..now ain't dat soo embrassing?.and it's no beauty spot for me na ah!..it gonna cover my entire face soon..!!/..and i dun want dat.

    is the reason is the sun? affecting my skin? co'z if it is i dun belive it!.even on where my skin is always covered i hav mole there also. which is strange dan.

    and lazer stuffs is dangerioues dun even wanna go near it. ><

    waahh!!..

  • my name is Llama
    17 years ago

    Well i would consult a dermatologist like someone above said

    there are skin conditions that can make brown patches all over your skin usually though the one i'm thinking of it's not something that will go away with cream or anything. again plastic surgery

  • TheWorldFellNUWerentThere
    17 years ago

    Well it'd be nice if you could at least type right.

    I have them on my face too.

    The reason it's so embarrassing to you is because your not accepting the fact that they're not going to go away nor that your not accepting yourself for who you are.

    It may run in the family also, and yes you have to believe it can be the sun. When I went to the dermatologist, he said that it depends on what shirt your wearing that day. Some soak up the UV rays and when it's rubbed against your body it could be just as well as that fact.

    I have one thats on my left shoulder that is bigger then a pencil eraser, yeah I thought it was something, he said it's either the shirts or the family.

    It's great to be concerned but the best thought is make an appointment with the dermatologist, he'll just probably tell you he cant do anything about it. Because for 2 reasons.

    Reason 1: You said you don't want plastic surgery to have it removed.

    Reason 2: You don't want it to be taken off by a lazor.

    So pretty much you have really nothing to do except just D E A L with it if it's nothing.

  • BrokenREALiTy
    17 years ago

    My friends got their moles removed before . Only they only had like two on their face . Your's sounds like some kind of ... I'm not gonna say anything . But like above said, you pretty much just gotta DEAL with it then . Go see a dang dermatologist (sp) . It's what they're there for -.-

  • skynerraw
    17 years ago

    Why are you freaking out? Seriously the person above said it right, if someone doesn't like you because of them, then they aren't a true friend, its not that embarrassing, they are what make you. Why do you want to change that? Heck, if that were me I'd be more embarrassed by my horrible typing than by a couple of moles. If you don't want it removed by plastic surgery or lazer, you really have no other choice than what they said deal with it.

  • TheWorldFellNUWerentThere
    17 years ago

    Thank you for supporting my views.

    Especially the one above me!

  • Normal is the Watchword
    17 years ago

    I don't know I think a skin doctor could help

  • SECRET
    17 years ago

    Well not always i'm embrased by it. sumtyms i do accept it tho. i think it's ok. but i dun like changes much like now the moles. b4 i had lil and i was used to it and now more? i'll need tym to get use to it . dym!. y me??..aniwaiz. thank you guys for ur um..advises and comments :).

    still i'm not dat happy abt it ...arr.. ya i was freaking out b4 but i guess i'l hav to accept it. :'(.

  • TheWorldFellNUWerentThere
    17 years ago

    It's the best thing to do. People wanted to be your friends because your you. If your so worried about yourself and your moles then people aren't going to see that you love yourself. Love yourself before you love others.

  • The Herald
    17 years ago

    Are these moles just a way of saying that yes, im a lesbian. and the urges are getting bigger and more common each day, soon they will cover my whole body. JUST KIDDING. im sooo sory i couldnt resist, it was such a perfect comparison-simile-thing

  • Poetess Lana
    17 years ago

    I doubt your boyfriend would care. he should like you for you and think you always look beautiful, and if he doesnt, you should beat him with a stick. ;-)

    as for the moles, i personally think they sound more like freckles to me. just dont forget the sunscreen!

  • TheWorldFellNUWerentThere
    17 years ago

    Bleeding,

    Thanks. It's just to bring her back to reality cuz she was like in OUTERSPACE!!

  • UnderAge Dying
    17 years ago

    You go to the doctor and tell him
    that you want your mole removed and
    AMAZINGLY, he just removes it....

  • SECRET
    17 years ago

    Wish it was dat easy. i bet it hurts like hell? or does it not? co'z u no the doctor takes out THE skin!!

    *scary*

  • my name is Llama
    17 years ago

    They put u under an aneasetic deary. that means your numb or unconscious. so you don't feel a thing

  • Sherry Lynn
    17 years ago

    Actually the dr can freeze them off and no it does not hurt. At least it did not hurt me.

    --Sher

  • TheWorldFellNUWerentThere
    17 years ago

    When i got my mole off my back the doctor made my grandma put on some of this numbing stuff for the skin and put it on a few hours before the surgery then he ha d to stick in a needle. It only hurt for like a few seconds but i was awake through the whole thing then i fell asleep.

  • SECRET
    17 years ago

    Hei sher?

    is dat ur face ?? on the pix?
    pretty*

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    which doctor should i go to and how can i no it's dat docter?
    i wonder how much it costs?

  • my name is Llama
    17 years ago

    Yeh they use that for skin cancer also. they use cold ice. and it blisters afterwards. my mum gets it done it looks way sore afterwards

  • SECRET
    17 years ago

    Wonder hoe mch it costs?

  • my name is Llama
    17 years ago

    Well i don't no about the health system in america but when my mum gets it done it's free under the public health system/medicare