Ok help needed now

I have a really good guy friend his name is jordan he is going out with a girl and they don't talk at all they more or less stand there and look at each other i can tell its really awkward between them and i spoke to his bestfriend about it and he said just to let things take there course but i know jordy will be the one to get hurt he's one of those guys that likes to bottle up there feelings and im scared he'll slip into depression. i tried to talk to him about this but his best friend stopped me should i tell him? i also kinda have a crush on him is this a problem GAH CONFUZZLED HELP ME!

K k well you might think its awkward for them hun because like you said you have a little crush on him!!!
maybe infront of ppl they dnt like to be all over each toher hence y they are bit distant... at end of the day he is in a relationship with someone who aint you so leave him be if he gets hurt he gets hurt...

we all HAVE to be hurt you cant always protect him.. believe me i used to have lad mate as a best mate but i always tried to protect him and i was his shoulder to lean on all the time but it back fired on ME an i was the one who got hurt..

so my advice is..... stand back leave them be and if he comes to you coz its gone bad then lend him a shoulder and a listening ear but DONT bad mouth her at all...

dont break htem up becasue there is something between them that is why they are together...........

Your feelings for him makes it seem that the two are awkward . Some couples don't say much . His friend is right . Stop butting in . It's his relationship . Unless he talks to you about it, there's ntohing wrong . His best friend knows what's better for him than you do, so stop trying to involve yourself where you're not needed .

For one guys don't get hurt that easily its more of the girls that make the relationship their whole world... but just step back and let him date who he wants...

Ok,guys are very confusing.I know how you feel,every time you see them together you feel sick,but he is also your friend. You cant make his decisions for him. Let him learn and just be there for him.When its all said and done he will be yours.

Ok,guys are very confusing.I know how you feel,every time you see them together you feel sick,but he is also your friend. You cant make his decisions for him. Let him learn and just be there for him.When its all said and done he will be yours.

You must never go for your best friend .... if u guys break up wuts going to happen .... you'll ruin ur friendship thats whats going to happen and dont be involved with his realationship if he gets depressed then be there for him just let him make his own mistakes.

What Bob and pretty much everyone else said. Not your problem, but out and let it take it's course.

^ Yep... Erin said it... if you date your best friend and you guys break up, it's going to ruin your friendship in a lot of ways... You'll still be friends... MAYBE, but never in the way that you used to be..... And I agree that if he has a girlfriend, it isn't really right for you to be crushing and plotting on him...

AS HIS FRIEND... just talk to him nicely about the fact that you're concerned about his relationship, and possibly explain that you care about him (as a friend) and don't wanna see him get hurt... and hopefully he'll shed light on their relationship for you letting you know that it's not as bad as you're veiwing it as... and IF it is something that's going to end soon, just let him know that you're there for him to talk to.

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Maybe there really isnt a problem there and your just imagining the whole thing. You know you want him so badly that you are willign to find some fault with his relationship. The worst thing you can ever do is to get him to break up with his girl so that you can have him. Thats plotting, and you know what?suppose you get him to leave her and in the end he finds someone else. You will still be alone and your work would be in vain. So let things take its course, what is to be will be, dont make an issue out of nothing.

This may sound corny but

Let him spread his wings and fly and if he should return to you yall were meant to be

Talk to him. Give him advice on what to do to open up to her and give her advice about him what he likes and things like that. Don't try to get in and date him that would not be a good thing to do. You just don't do those kind of things.

Ulterior motive.

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Honestly everyones being an asshole about this.
when they all know if it was someone they really liked or were good friends with they would do the exact same thing.
shit i know i would.
i go for the guy i want and i expect them to break up.
if they are akward infront of people thats stupid.
sometimes it is really immature to go break someone up.
but if i have really strong feelings for someone i will go for them...