Help..i dont know what to do..!!

Well heres the thing..i was with this lad
but then he was really full on..
like a stalker
so i ended it
but we're still friends and talk and everything
but hes always saying he loves me..wants me back..
etc..
i really wanna be with him
its just the fact hes so full on and obsessive
what can i do
i really like him..but this is holding me back
HELP..!! :)

Tell him EXACTLY what you just said a second ago, tell him you want to be with him but your scared because he's kinda possesive, see what he says, maybe he just doesn't know he's being like that.

If you tell him what is wrong, and he actually works to change his possesiveness, then you two could start up a relationship again. If he doesn't change, then you have to let him go...

Try talking to him about it. Tell him how you feel. If he doesn't know that you think he is posseive then he is never going to be able to change. TELL HIM. Explain to him that you just need a bit more space. If he can't give you your space then you should leave him.

Ditch him hey unless you like kinky stalkers

Define "stalker", "full on" & "obsessive", for me. I know alot of girls & heard of alot of girls label their guys this way & when I've asked them to give me the details they say that their guys are always wanting to be around them, know what they're doing, constantly remind them how much they love them, how happy they are to be with them, etc., etc. (...which sounds pretty normal for a guy who loves you to me). In reality it's them themselves (the girls) who have the problem; they're afraid of commitment & being serious.

You're 14. He is probably going through puberty and just wants to 'experiment'!