I cant get over him

I was best mates with this guy for ages we went to paris and began getting really close kissing and such, it was going alrite we never wanted to get together but it didnt matter we were havin fun all that mattters when your young right?
then he decided that he would play me off against another girl harsh i thought even worse he chose her, i cant get over that, and we arent even as close as friends any more because hes not allowed to talk to me, its not fair and i cant get over the fact she stole my guy and my best friend away from me how can i get over him and what she did?

sorry if that was a lot of waffle but made me feel better getting it all out

Okay, first off, why isn't he allowed to talk to you?

Second of all, I'm not sure it's what she did. Your guy friend chose her over you. If it's her who isn't letting you guys talk, he's letting her control him.

I'm sorry to say it, but I don't really think it's her fault.

Right now, you probably feel like it's the end of the world. It makes sense, I would in that situation. But don't think of it like you lost him. One day, you're going to meet someone, fall deeply in love with him, and get married. Both of you are going to have gone through other people before finding each other, which is completely okay. You'll be totally happy that you found him, and you'll probably (almost) never think of this guy again.:)

I hope you feel better; sorry for what you're gonig through. Good luck.(L)

%CAT

I'm not going to beat around the bush. I found that only destroys people.

You're 17 and a growing adult. Don't let this one relationship mishap get you down. You're too young to be having problems like this, and honestly, by next month you will have moved on. Did it ever occur to you that it just wasn't meant to be? Let go of him in your head, and you'll find you won't regret it.

I completely agree with Elysium. The inevitable thing about relationships is that they end eventually; one way or another. You have to move on from it. It will be hard to do, but humans are a resilient things. Good luck to you.