This hurts so much. help?

Lets see...
One of my good friends, whom I love dearly is ignoring me. She hasnt really talked to me in a couple days, and i think it's because her new girlfriend doesnt like me. The thing was, last time they were going out I wrote my friend a note and signed it "with love," and her girlfriend got jealous and practically hated me...

So now that they're back together, my friend isn't talking to me. How could she value her so-called "love" for this other girl over our friendship [of over 10 years]. It just doesnt seem right. I thought she was my friend, and she always swore she loved me too. but now... was it all just a lie?

Does anyone understand? Can anyone give me some advice? Cuz right now I just feel like giving up on it altogether... even though i know that's not the right thing to do, but right now I dont know what to do anymore. Im so lost.

HEY!!!! TALK TO HER MAN!!! TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL!!! Iv'e had this problem before-well actully it is one of my problems...you know just because you sighned a note "with love" is the reason why her gf doesn't like you...my guess is she wont treat your friend very good at all! so go save her...

I agree talk to her
just sit her down and ask whats going on
if she gives a valid reason then cool you can redeem yourself
but if she says its because of her girlfriend then tell her why you think thats messed up and if she just dosen't listen to you then go talk to that freak of a girlfriend......
cause thats just messed up

I just talked to her the other day, and she told me that she's only ignoring me when her other friend is around because her friend wants to beat me up if I talk to her.
So when her friend isn't around, we're cool and we hangout and talk all the time... but when her friend is around, she just kind of ignores me...
[And I wrote about that for one of my quotes]

Well. her friend is like totally jealous of me and wants to beat me up if I even talk to my ex. so yeah. I donno what to do. I mean, I'm not scared of her... I just don't want anything to happen. Cuz it'll upset everybody.
I just wish I could make her understand what this is doing to everybody...

Well... as of today, she's going back out with her ex that doesnt like me... so i think I've lost her.

I've already found someone else...
but it still hurts losing her as a friend.
because I'll always love her.

and im not looking for pity.
i was looking for advice on how to deal with this.
but nevermind.

Um what a nut case friend! and yeahh i agree, tell her!!! make thatt dummm person understand that it was all a misunderstanding if she dont wana no then u gota learn to let it go!

=(

Yeah. well I'm trying. It's just kinda hard.
I've pretty much accepted the fact that we will never be together again [or so she says]...
but I still want to stay as close to her as a friend as I possibly can, so I dont lose her... I love her to much to let that happen.