I need help!

Ok background first...I'm bi. I am in love with my best friend. She knows. We act like any other girlfriends, except we kiss and touch. But I want more. I want to be with her. She is the one for me.

Okay so here's my problem...

I don't know how to initiate something b/w us. I'm 19 and I have only been with one person.

You guys are my last hope!! Please don't criticize, I get enough of that from my family. If people have nothing better to do than to hurt my feelings, I would rather not hear it. keep it to yourself, bc you don't know me.

Confrount her.
Tell her that you want to be more.

and if she says no.. then dont be with her anymore. Say its either us together or not us at all.
I know it seems hard but I would try it anyways.

I have told her. She says our relationship is purely physical. I can deal with only a physical relationship...however, in a physical relationship...do more than that. We don't. When we talk about it...She always changes the subject, but she told me she had thought about being with me...more than once. That tells me that she wants to. But I have to be the one to initiate and i don't know how.

Okay..
well what I would do is I would plan it out perfectly, I would have her come over and just make the first move.. Like idk how to describe it.
My advice, Kiss her.. and then maybe nibble on her ear and then put your hand on her lower back and whisper in her ear that you wanna have sex.
To me thats like making the first move..
IF she wants you to make the first move then do it, and if you want do it the way I said, or just play it by ear.

Okay there are contributing factors there. She has a little girl. She's 2. We have to wait until the baby goes to sleep, before anything can happen and most of the time she falls asleep. And she won't come to my place. So it's on her territory, not that it intimidates me...but is there a perfect time I should be waiting for?? I mean will I know? I don't want to rush things, but she is ready, I can tell.

Well if she's ready then there is no way that your rushing her at all...
well go over to her house and then wait until her kid goes to sleep and then make a move.
to be honest i dont really see the problem here.. If you both wanna have sex then it cant be that hard to do it, if it is then its not meant to be..

I didn't read that til after I posted...sorry...

How can I delete it. I didn't mean to break the rules.

Done...maybe I won't get into any trouble. Thanks 4 the tip.

Did you say originally that her problem was that it was a "purely physical" relationship? That seems odd, considering that you refer to her as your best friend. Anyway, I don't really see how bringing your physical relationship up to the next level would help her rationalize the fact that your relationship is only physical. I'd suggest maybe focusing on the non-physical parts of your relationship, so that she can know how much you care about her. That's the basis on which to build a happy, physical relationship, if that's what the -both- of you decide to pursue. Hope things go well for you!