What do You do When.....HELP!!

What do you do when your boy goes out with 3 other girls without you and with out telling you that he could even go out for lunch?

Hmm..well do you know these girls? Have they and your bf been friends for a while?

No they just go to my school

And they are in gr 9 Im in grade 10

No he didnt say he couldnt go he didnt say anything and he didn't tell me my friend saw him and told me i have told him i know about it

If he's just going to lunch with random girls he knows, without even letting you know, than I think that's wrong.

Well i dont know i dont know all his freinds he usually hangs out with me

Well we just started dating him and Im new to this school and I live out of town and my mom doesn't think i should date until im 16

Its avery complicated situation

Ya but she is way over protective I hate her and my dad she is just ok when we moved out to a farm she said that i would still be able to hang out with my friends and what not i have to ask to go up town, I can't wear pants lower than my belly botton and I have to ask to do anything

I have to go but just keep posting and all of that is true but it just for you to know not for a pity party

I love how people ask for Britt to do the harsh stuff. thats funny.

and as for you mandi. you really should listen to your mom. but if anything cuz honestly i used to go behind their backs too, just talk to him. you shouldn't be going to us for help, you can't immediatly think something. just have a chat. and if it doesn't work out then you just weren't ment to be. your young, you'll find someone else.

"i hate her" oh yeah thats a really mature thing to say about your mother. and as for this guy...TALK to him? jesus. whats happened to communicating lately.

That would bug me.. alot. talk to him. maybe their his counsins? :D

^ Haha, that'd be great if it really were true!!

But really Mandi.. you can't hide what you know from your boyfriend. Like the others have said.. talk to him!!! I have no right to tell you to listen to your parents, because I go behind my parents backs all of the time.. but really, you deserve to know what's up and he needs to know that you know about him going out with these other girls.

I'm sorry but I would be extremely pissed if my boyfriend went out with another girl.. and I'd be even madder if he didn't tell me about it. They might just be friends, but you should know if he goes out with them or not. I don't see why you couldn't go with them.. so yeah, just talk to him. Good luck!!!

~Rikku~

Secret Wish has it right. TALK and without assumptions or being jealous. I have more female friends than I do male friends. I just get along with girls better. So I hang out with girls often. I'm not saying it's the same situation for him, but there could be a logical explanation.

Pssht, if that happened to me I'd leave him and let him chase me, then tell him how it is with me. But then if he didn't chase me I just wouldn't care.

Especially do that, because you and him just started dating. If a guy started pulling that kind of BS in the beginning, what do you think he'll be doing in a few months, a year?

No offence but thats slightly invading his friendship. Which is bad for relationships because it shows you don't trust him. I hate when a girl accuses a guy of things that they arent doing. Just as you dont want a guy breathing down your back dont breathe down his... One other thing don't easily buy into what people say cause sometimes its just a plot to ruin what you have. Maybe they didnt see nothing at all and just said they did IDK... Just a thought. I personally dont see why you confront him about that...