Im in love with my best friend's boyfriend

My best friend is with this great guy and i think i might be falling for him. i dont know if i should say something or just keep my mouth shut. what do you think i should do?

Keep your mouth shut. Don't get in the way of their relationship; you'll get over him soon enough I'm sure.

If it is really your best friend, you won't do a thing and you will move on.

I think that you really should keep your mouth shut. i knwo what it is like to like your best friends boyfriend. i did once. she found out before she started to go out with him and i had told her that i didnt like him anymore. if you think that she should know you should tell her, but say to her that you wont try anything. but it is really up to you to decide.

Kalee

Keep your mouth shut is right. You may htink you like him but think more about the impact it will have if you blurt it out?

Keep your mouth shut. i dont care if you think he's your soulmate; dont do that to your 'best friend.' my 'best friend' of 6 years tried getting with my last boyfriend, i was hurt and shocked. thats not what best friends do.. moreover, that's not something you do to another person.

Don't get involved with that game! It's a horrible thing to do to your best friend, she'll probably never forgive you.

Move on.

And don't say that you're "in love." You're in lust. Move on, find someone else.

And if he's such a great guy, be happy for your friend. Don't try to steal that away from her.

^Perfect answer.

Keep your goblet shut, mate. You could be getting yourself into some real crap if you don't, and I don't think you'll want that - believe me.

Do you want to be known as someone that no one can trust?

That's where action will lead. Everyone else is DEAD right:

You're probably attracted to him because he does right by her and if that's the case he won't leave her anyway. Leave them be and find your own brand of perfect.

Wow you guys are pretty harsh but i hate to say it i do agree with them.

trying to be with your best friends man is just a vicious game that isnt fun to play.
and you will end up losing someone who means more to you than that "special" boy.

Is your friendship worth the trouble over a guy? if you really want to keep your friendship don't say anything. you will not regret it later on, friendships last forever; relationships don't.

when you are down and sad who do you call?
when you need a shoulder to cry on who do you call?
when you need a laugh who do you call?
when you need a break from life who do you call?
when you need to just talk who do you call?

your best friend the one that you can always count on!!!!!! not some guy