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My brother's girlfriend thinks that she can control my brothers life. She says he can't go in the miltary because he has to think of her now. Well they're aren't married yet, and I think that she can't tell him what he can and can't do. DO you agree or disagree. WHY?

I agree, she shouldn't control his life!! they aren't married so techinally she has no say if he joins up or not.

if he wants to enlist then she should support him and stop using the guilt trip to make him not go.

she isn't his momma she therefore he doesn't have to listen to her but if he asked her opinion then that is another story.

talk to your brother and see what he says and thinks about his girlfriend's say-so.

Thankyou guys I really apreshiate all your answers.