Ladies who are in love with thugs...hold your head up high

To all those girls who are stuck in the middle of lovin a fool that don\'t deserve to loved and hurtin by themselves. First off hold your head up high, I know that you love him and I know that you need him, I know that you feel that you are lost without him with you. But in reality, if he isn\'t doin what he needs to be doin for you and yours, then you are better off without him. If he isn\'t treatin you like you tha queen of tha world, then you can move on without him. If he isn\'t comin home at night to you, if he isn\'t makin things right for you to better your life, If you can\'t trust that fool and wonder where he at when he isn\'t by your side then walk away while you still can. See sometimes we don\'t get that choice and we regret it for the rest of our lives. So if you see yourself hurting, if you are crying at night alone and your man is out doing his thang, get your things packed and walk away. He dosen\'t deserve you or his love. He wants a faithful lady at home while he\'s messing around with some trick, or he\'d rather be with his boys then with you. Either way, you are second best to whatever his first choice is. Be first to yourself and get out! Be true to yourself and realize that you deserve better. Realize that you deserve to be happy and if he isn\'t giving you that...if he isn\'t putting a smile on your face everyday and you sleeping with one too, then you need to move on. Gurl, don\'t think that love can heal the pain or that he will ever change. Men are the way they are, we can\'t change them. And if they don\'t treat you right to begin with, they never will. So let it go and move on to one who will be there no matter what. You deserve to be treated like a queen, like you\'re number one. Like you are everything. Cuz you are!! Hold your head up high and regain the self respect that he took from you. Walk out the door and make something better for you. He don\'t deserve you no more.