Why

Why do you say you love me when you threaten to leave me if i do something that you don't like,
you get mad when i won't do things for you that I've done with my friends and me exes.
i just don't want you to judge me for what i do.
i want you to stay with me for who i am inside.
so why do you do this to me
make me feel bad when i say i don't want to do something.
thats all i want to know is why?
why can you love me for who i am and what i do for you