Breaking up

Boys shouldn't be aloud to use the words " i am breaking up with you " its like he is breaking your heart just not caring , why cant they use simple words like It`s over ?yes it still hurts but its not as bad. why ? I dint understand boys and i probally never will just why o why cant they say It`s over ?So the next time a boy says I`m breaking up with you , go up to him and slap him ...