need help saying no

If you really don't want to go out with him then just tell him no. Sure he'll be a bit hurt but, if you guys were really friends then it should all be ok after awhile. If he starts acting all jerky, he's not worth stressing out over.

Well, I am in a similar situation but i took care of mine probally not in the best way but none the less it was taken care of...ever here the saying "The truth comes out when your drunk"...lol

Anyways, I think that you should sit him down and seriously talk to him, see me i am a chicken shit...i personally would do it on the phone of when i was under the influence of alchol which isnt very often...but we are not talking about me..lol
I think you should tell him before A.)He gets pushier or B.) He gets his hopes up too high.
I know it's hard beleive me i know...and everytime you want to tell him you know what you want to say in your head but no words will show for it..lol
I hope it goes really well and wish yah the best

take care
Scooby